awkward silences.. do u get that often?...

[l Xes l]

There are just some people that no matter how hard i try.. there's always that void gap of awkward silences...
There are just some people that i dont even have to talk or try.. and there's absolutely NO awkward silences....
Is it just personality compability issues or wut...

 

[screw3d]

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[imported_Reck]

lol

 

[l Xes l]

Originally posted by: screw3d
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[effowe]

You know what, I don't mind the awkward pauses. Hell, I don't even think they're all that awkward. I really don't mind sitting with someone and just not talking. I'm sure they dont want to go through all the BS small talk just like I don't.

 

[l Xes l]

Originally posted by: effowe
You know what, I don't mind the awkward pauses. Hell, I don't even think they're all that awkward. I really don't mind sitting with someone and just not talking. I'm sure they dont want to go through all the BS small talk just like I don't.

maybe it's my insecure nature taking over when there's silence?!..

 

[effowe]

Originally posted by: krnxpride83

Originally posted by: effowe
You know what, I don't mind the awkward pauses. Hell, I don't even think they're all that awkward. I really don't mind sitting with someone and just not talking. I'm sure they dont want to go through all the BS small talk just like I don't.

maybe it's my insecure nature taking over when there's silence?!..

Well alot of people feel the need to say something, I don't know why. Maybe they think it's rude if they don't, but really, I wouldn't worry about it. Once you start caring less about what others think, all this wont matter.

 

[Tylanner]

I get that long akward silence after I call the person the wrong name!

Oh I hate that!

HEY ERIC! ADAM!

(sh!t!)

 

[l Xes l]

Originally posted by: effowe

Originally posted by: krnxpride83

Originally posted by: effowe
You know what, I don't mind the awkward pauses. Hell, I don't even think they're all that awkward. I really don't mind sitting with someone and just not talking. I'm sure they dont want to go through all the BS small talk just like I don't.

maybe it's my insecure nature taking over when there's silence?!..

Well alot of people feel the need to say something, I don't know why. Maybe they think it's rude if they don't, but really, I wouldn't worry about it. Once you start caring less about what others think, all this wont matter.

but is it possible to not care about what others think?

 

[effowe]

Originally posted by: krnxpride83

Originally posted by: effowe

Originally posted by: krnxpride83

Originally posted by: effowe
You know what, I don't mind the awkward pauses. Hell, I don't even think they're all that awkward. I really don't mind sitting with someone and just not talking. I'm sure they dont want to go through all the BS small talk just like I don't.

maybe it's my insecure nature taking over when there's silence?!..

Well alot of people feel the need to say something, I don't know why. Maybe they think it's rude if they don't, but really, I wouldn't worry about it. Once you start caring less about what others think, all this wont matter.

but is it possible to not care about what others think?

Well I suppose that depends on who's doing the thinking. I care about what my parents, family, and friends have to say. All others I could pretty much care less, that is if they have nothing constructive to say.

 

[l Xes l]

Originally posted by: effowe

Originally posted by: krnxpride83

Originally posted by: effowe

Originally posted by: krnxpride83

Originally posted by: effowe
You know what, I don't mind the awkward pauses. Hell, I don't even think they're all that awkward. I really don't mind sitting with someone and just not talking. I'm sure they dont want to go through all the BS small talk just like I don't.

maybe it's my insecure nature taking over when there's silence?!..

Well alot of people feel the need to say something, I don't know why. Maybe they think it's rude if they don't, but really, I wouldn't worry about it. Once you start caring less about what others think, all this wont matter.

but is it possible to not care about what others think?

Well I suppose that depends on who's doing the thinking. I care about what my parents, family, and friends have to say. All others I could pretty much care less, that is if they have nothing constructive to say.

yea.. i dont really get the silences w/ my family or friends...
and if they are strangers.. i dont really care either..
but it's those people who you interact with not by choice... like at work, school, neighbors, and etc...