Woman and her mom do most of the shopping, they hit Aldi, Walmart, and will buy stuff on sale. Entire meals for the three of us often cost under $20 in groceries, counting breakfast where we go through like 8 or 9 eggs and some toast and butter and such ... we sometimes all eat for under $10 in groceries. I tend to go out for lunch at least 3 days per week at $15, and I take the woman out for dinner at least once per week (sometimes her mom joins us, sometimes, just the 2 of us) ... for like 25 bucks per person usually.
Overall, we are spending more money than I expect, however, we are spending a lot less than we used to when we went out to eat like 4 nights per week..