Artdeco
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- Mar 14, 2015
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My 25 yr old son carries a diagnosis of classic Autism, he has been "different" since the day he was born, reading the phone book aloud, reciting TV commercials in an echolalic fashion. Did not speak reliably till age 5 years. When frustrated by communication difficulties he would head bang & bite himself till around age 10. In high school, tormented by bullies he made verbal threats & was promptly hustled off to a .4 IEP school (.4 is one step before residential)
Flash forward 10 years, my son is finishing his second semester of college, he's a regular blood donor, he volunteers for charitable causes, he has an active social life with friends he cherishes. He still has some self- stimming behaviors ie: he talks out loud to himself, he has trouble tolerating certain fabrics & foods due to their texture, he at times has overwhelming episodes of anxiety.. but he has learned how to reach out for support & how to express feelings appropriately.
My son is very worried that a life with autism that's already difficult enough will get even harder now for not just himself but for every other person carrying an ASD diagnosis.
He wants you to know that not all people with ASD disorders lack empathy & that his biggest problem stems with being able to adequately communicate his thoughts verbally & that for many on the spectrum the biggest issue is disorders of speech/communication.
"just because my wiring doesn't allow me to chatter away with people doesn't mean I would ever think it was okay to pick up a gun & go and kill people"
Your son is lucky to have you and your family in his life. Strong work :thumbsup:
