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ATOT Consensus needed! Cheating neighbor with a deployed spouse

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Tobolo

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Hey If my wife was cheating on me, id want you to tell me. Then I can choke the .....
 

Amused

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Originally posted by: 91TTZ
Originally posted by: Amused

Go for it! March right over there and tell them. See what it gets you.

That's why I said to do it anonymously.

Now, if you don't feel comfortable telling them face to face, that should tell you something right there.

Stay out of other people's personal lives.
 

91TTZ

Lifer
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Originally posted by: Geekbabe

lol,I'm so glad my neighbor's mind their own business.


Yeah, now you can cheat on your man whenever you want. Congratulations.
 

OVerLoRDI

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Normally I'd say MYOB but like others have said this just isn't right. What an ungrateful b!tch. I think you should do it anonymously that way you are out of the line of fire, because what she is doing is absolutely wrong on way too many levels.
 

91TTZ

Lifer
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Originally posted by: Amused
Originally posted by: 91TTZ
Originally posted by: Amused

Go for it! March right over there and tell them. See what it gets you.

That's why I said to do it anonymously.

Now, if you don't feel comfortable telling them face to face, that should tell you something right there.

Stay out of other people's personal lives.

I wouldn't tell Mike Tyson that he's crazy to his face, either, but that doesn't take away from the fact that he is.
 

Amused

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Originally posted by: 91TTZ
Originally posted by: Geekbabe

lol,I'm so glad my neighbor's mind their own business.


Yeah, now you can cheat on your man whenever you want. Congratulations.

What if they're swingers? What fscking business is it of yours?

Who appointed you to be the fidelity cops?
 

Red Dawn

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Originally posted by: 91TTZ
Originally posted by: Geekbabe

lol,I'm so glad my neighbor's mind their own business.


Yeah, now you can cheat on your man whenever you want. Congratulations.
Yeah right, our neighbors are the nosiest busybodies around, they just gossip among themselves.

 

91TTZ

Lifer
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Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: 91TTZ
Originally posted by: Geekbabe

lol,I'm so glad my neighbor's mind their own business.


Yeah, now you can cheat on your man whenever you want. Congratulations.


oh please,grow up!

I have grown up to be a responsible adult. The kind that's man enough to tell his neighbor when his wife is screwing around on him.
 

Geekbabe

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Originally posted by: 91TTZ
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: 91TTZ
Originally posted by: Geekbabe

lol,I'm so glad my neighbor's mind their own business.


Yeah, now you can cheat on your man whenever you want. Congratulations.


oh please,grow up!

I have grown up to be a responsible adult. The kind that's man enough to tell his neighbor when his wife is screwing around on him.



based on what? evidence that's flimsy and circumstantial at best?
 

91TTZ

Lifer
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Originally posted by: Amused
Originally posted by: 91TTZ
Originally posted by: Geekbabe

lol,I'm so glad my neighbor's mind their own business.


Yeah, now you can cheat on your man whenever you want. Congratulations.

What if they're swingers? What fscking business is it of yours?

Who appointed you to be the fidelity cops?

If they're swingers, then he obviously won't mind that his wife is screwing around with some other guy.

It just seems strange to me that you think that people should be allowed to keep secrets even when the "secret" is out in the public. Once someone does something obvious enough that others are able to figure out what they're doing, they didn't keep their secret well.
 

Red Dawn

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Originally posted by: 91TTZ
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: 91TTZ
Originally posted by: Geekbabe

lol,I'm so glad my neighbor's mind their own business.


Yeah, now you can cheat on your man whenever you want. Congratulations.


oh please,grow up!

I have grown up to be a responsible adult. The kind that's man enough to tell his neighbor anonymously when his wife is screwing around on him.
Fixed for accuracy

 

91TTZ

Lifer
Jan 31, 2005
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Originally posted by: Red Dawn
Originally posted by: 91TTZ


I have grown up to be a responsible adult. The kind that's man enough to tell his neighbor anonymously when his wife is screwing around on him.

Fixed for accuracy

Still works for me...
 

Red Dawn

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Originally posted by: 91TTZ
Originally posted by: Red Dawn
Originally posted by: 91TTZ


I have grown up to be a responsible adult. The kind that's man enough to tell his neighbor anonymously when his wife is screwing around on him.

Fixed for accuracy

Still works for me...
Yeah that way you won't have to face the consequences if you are wrong. You sound more like a cowardly POS and any kind of "MAN".
 

Raduque

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Originally posted by: Geekbabe

Waltzing up to somebody who's made it clear they don't want to know you and telling them you've been spying on their wife is going to go over really well.

So, seeing what people do out in the open in the middle of the driveway, yard or front walk is "spying"? Since when?
 

91TTZ

Lifer
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Originally posted by: Red Dawn

Yeah that way you won't have to face the consequences if you are wrong. You sound more like a cowardly POS and any kind of "MAN".

I'll tell you the kind of MAN I am. I'll show up at your door to let you know that *I* have been screwing your wife, and I'd hand you the pictures to prove it.
 

Geekbabe

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Originally posted by: 91TTZ
Originally posted by: Amused
Originally posted by: 91TTZ
Originally posted by: Geekbabe

lol,I'm so glad my neighbor's mind their own business.


Yeah, now you can cheat on your man whenever you want. Congratulations.

What if they're swingers? What fscking business is it of yours?

Who appointed you to be the fidelity cops?

If they're swingers, then he obviously won't mind that his wife is screwing around with some other guy.

It just seems strange to me that you think that people should be allowed to keep secrets even when the "secret" is out in the public. Once someone does something obvious enough that others are able to figure out what they're doing, they didn't keep their secret well.

I'd say the OP's biggest problem is a wife who's got nothing better to do with her time than to peep out windows and spy on neighbors.

I also wonder how much of this is based on the fact that the neighbors made it plain they didn't want any new friends?
 

Red Dawn

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Originally posted by: 91TTZ
Originally posted by: Red Dawn

Yeah that way you won't have to face the consequences if you are wrong. You sound more like a cowardly POS and any kind of "MAN".

I'll tell you the kind of MAN I am. I'll show up at your door to let you know that *I* have been screwing your wife, and I'd hand you the pictures to prove it.
Sorry, she's not into skeevy little Nerds.
 

Geekbabe

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Originally posted by: Raduque
Originally posted by: Geekbabe

Waltzing up to somebody who's made it clear they don't want to know you and telling them you've been spying on their wife is going to go over really well.

So, seeing what people do out in the open in the middle of the driveway, yard or front walk is "spying"? Since when?

If I had a gun to my head I couldn;t tell you what time any of my neighbor's arrive home from work,let alone give descriptions of the people that come and go from their driveway regularly.


I'm betting that the OP's wife's speculations are in part at least fueled by the fact that the woman in question wants nothing to do with her.
 

KK

Lifer
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Originally posted by: Red Dawn
Originally posted by: 91TTZ
Originally posted by: Red Dawn

Yeah that way you won't have to face the consequences if you are wrong. You sound more like a cowardly POS and any kind of "MAN".

I'll tell you the kind of MAN I am. I'll show up at your door to let you know that *I* have been screwing your wife, and I'd hand you the pictures to prove it.
Sorry, she's not into skeevy little Nerds.

Just old farts? :p
 

91TTZ

Lifer
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Originally posted by: Red Dawn
Originally posted by: 91TTZ
Originally posted by: Red Dawn

Yeah that way you won't have to face the consequences if you are wrong. You sound more like a cowardly POS and any kind of "MAN".

I'll tell you the kind of MAN I am. I'll show up at your door to let you know that *I* have been screwing your wife, and I'd hand you the pictures to prove it.
Sorry, she's not into skeevy little Nerds.

But skeevy nerds are HOT.
 

Geekbabe

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Originally posted by: 91TTZ
Originally posted by: Red Dawn
Originally posted by: 91TTZ
Originally posted by: Red Dawn

Yeah that way you won't have to face the consequences if you are wrong. You sound more like a cowardly POS and any kind of "MAN".

I'll tell you the kind of MAN I am. I'll show up at your door to let you know that *I* have been screwing your wife, and I'd hand you the pictures to prove it.
Sorry, she's not into skeevy little Nerds.

And I'm not into leather bags.



lol,weak,very weak
 

Red Dawn

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Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: 91TTZ
Originally posted by: Red Dawn
Originally posted by: 91TTZ
Originally posted by: Red Dawn

Yeah that way you won't have to face the consequences if you are wrong. You sound more like a cowardly POS and any kind of "MAN".

I'll tell you the kind of MAN I am. I'll show up at your door to let you know that *I* have been screwing your wife, and I'd hand you the pictures to prove it.
Sorry, she's not into skeevy little Nerds.

And I'm not into leather bags.



lol,weak,very weak
Especially for an alleged "Man"