At what point in the relationship, is it okay for you to put your hands on a girl's butt without asking for permission?

StormRider

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A lot of times when I'm at the mall I see a couple walking and then the guy puts his hands on the girl's butt. At what point in the relationship does a guy know when it's okay to do this?
 

Aquaman

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Say "Hey ladies.......... can I touch your bum all the time now?" ;)

Cheers,
Aquaman
 

her209

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Originally posted by: Pilsnerpete
Can I touch you now? [smack]

How bout now? [bif]

Can I touch you NOW? [POW!]
Can you feel me now?

Can you feel me now?

Can you feel me now?
 

anxi80

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Originally posted by: guapo337
Originally posted by: her209
After you've shaken hands.
yep. thats how you can test if the chemistry is there. if she slaps you, the relationship is doomed. if she doesnt mind, congratulations.
 

cerebusPu

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after you've had other initimate moments where you've already touched the heiny, and also after you established that she's okay with public display of affection. or after she grabs your ass in public.
 

Jzero

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Originally posted by: StormRider
A lot of times when I'm at the mall I see a couple walking and then the guy puts his hands on the girl's butt. At what point in the relationship does a guy know when it's okay to do this?

I like to think that my gf has enough class that at no point in our relationship would it be ok for me to grab her ass in public :)

In private, however...you'll know.
 

her209

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Originally posted by: Jzero
Originally posted by: StormRider
A lot of times when I'm at the mall I see a couple walking and then the guy puts his hands on the girl's butt. At what point in the relationship does a guy know when it's okay to do this?

I like to think that my gf has enough class that at no point in our relationship would it be ok for me to grab her ass in public :)

In private, however...you'll know.
I'd like to be the first to grab dat ass.

 

clamum

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Originally posted by: cerebusPu
after you've had other initimate moments where you've already touched the heiny, and also after you established that she's okay with public display of affection. or after she grabs your ass in public.

 

heartsurgeon

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At what point in the relationship does a guy know when it's okay to do this

i would think if you've kissed her and she hasn't spit up, you could proceed in the appropriate setting (NOT in public for heaven's sake).
 

amnesiac

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You are aware that every time you post a question like this, you are just revealing more and more how much of a hopeless loner you are, right?
 

bootymac

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Originally posted by: amnesiac
You are aware that every time you post a question like this, you are just revealing more and more how much of a hopeless loner you are, right?

I'm sure everyone is aware of that, Mr. Lifer ;)