at the end of date when this come up....

[chuckieland]

if i were driving, what's good way to ask the girl if i can come in
if she is driving, what's good way to ask the girl if she want to come in
of course, we all say just for conversation.
but we all know that is not what we have in mind

question for AT girls, at the end of date, when guy ask to come in, or invite you into the house
is sex first thing come to your mind?
and when guy tell you that just talking, do you girls believe it?

 

[Hammer]

These thread are always funny.

Baffled2, remember my thread idea from neochat?

 

[lawaris]

<< These thread are always funny.

Baffled2, remember my thread idea from neochat? >>



linky ???

 

[F00BAR]

i wouldnt invite myself in to her house but the other way is ok.

 

[lawaris]

<< i wouldnt invite myself in to her house but the other way is ok. >>



Why FOOBAR-ed ?? cos U r afraid of being what your nick suggests ??


Let the flames start

 

[AreaCode707]

I think it would depend on how long I've known the guy, what kind of guy he is. Depends on the femme too, because, me being me, I wouldn't go up if I had the least suspicioun that sex was the goal.

 

[F00BAR]

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<< i wouldnt invite myself in to her house but the other way is ok. >>

Why FOOBAR-ed ?? cos U r afraid of being what your nick suggests ?? Let the flames start >>



wrong fubar

 

[lawaris]

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<< i wouldnt invite myself in to her house but the other way is ok. >>

Why FOOBAR-ed ?? cos U r afraid of being what your nick suggests ?? Let the flames start >>



wrong fubar >>




yeah .........so what does your nick mean ??? really if not that

 

[yllus]

<< if i were driving, what's good way to ask the girl if i can come in >>

You don't, she has to freely invite you. Otherwise she'll have to quickly think of a reason not to have you come in, and the effect of putting her on the spot like that doesn't help you out much.


<< if she is driving, what's good way to ask the girl if she want to come in >>

hehe, from where I come from there's two classic method to going about doing this.

Simple: Ask her in for a drink and/or coffee. If she likes you, she's less likely to say no than you think.

Advanced: Lay some groundwork before that evening comes around. Ask her if she watches Leno/Letterman/Conan/Craig at night, then invite her in to see it (uh, make sure the show is actually on). Or that you have no taste in furniture layout and then invite her in for the chance to see the mess you've made of your place. Or your crazily-coloured walls.

The geek equivalent is to let her borrow a data/music CD of yours and invite her to come in and sit down while you search for it, then offer her a drink.

Yeah...it gets convoluted if you take it too far, but those are your options anyways. Honesty really does tend to be the best policy, so I recommend keeping it simple...

 

[MichaelD]

Being honest is the best policy. That said:

1. Never, under any circumstances ask "hey, can I come upstairs?" unless you never want to see that girl again. She'll slam the door in your face and not return your calls. This is the voice of experience talking.

2. If it's the first date, don't even ask her if she wants to see your apartment. She most prolly doesn't.

3. If she wants to ride your willy, she'll let you know. Some women are very subtle: "I'd love to see your CD collection" or "can I come upstairs and use your bathroom...the one at the restaurant was icky." Some women are not subtle: "you don't have to get up early, do you?" *puts head on your chest* "let's go upstairs...I want to get comfy" *Purrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr*

4. Men want sex. Now. All the time. Women want sex when they want it. Only. Women know this. If they wanna give it to you, you'll get it. If not, then you don't. Very simple.

 

[Ns1]

<< 4. Men want sex. Now. All the time. Women want sex when they want it. Only. Women know this. If they wanna give it to you, you'll get it. If not, then you don't. Very simple. >>




truer words have never been spoken

 

[911paramedic]

Ask her if she has ever seen somebody change a floppy drive into a hard drive.

Seriously, it should be a natural thing. Think about a date that takes place in your home, like cooking dinner and a movie. If you don't even think about sex or "making out" it will be more comfortable. The woman needs to feel safe and secure with you, eventually the kissing (or whatever) will happen all by itself.

 

[MichaelD]

<< Think about a date that takes place in your home, like cooking dinner and a movie. If you don't even think about sex or "making out" it will be more comfortable. The woman needs to feel safe and secure with you, eventually the kissing (or whatever) will happen all by itself. >>



Ahhhh, I see that I'm NOT the only Dr. Smooth Love out there! A home cooked meal will get 'em every time. Well, ALMOST every time. Women also love to see you clean the stove top with 409. It's like foreplay for them for some strange reason. Works for me.

 

[topcat903]

If that's the case, gonna sign up for cooking classes right now!!!

 

[F00BAR]

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<< i wouldnt invite myself in to her house but the other way is ok. >>

Why FOOBAR-ed ?? cos U r afraid of being what your nick suggests ?? Let the flames start >>

wrong fubar >>

yeah .........so what does your nick mean ??? really if not that >>



foo is a very complicated programming term, foobar is a common variable name used by coders.

 

[911paramedic]

Oh, and I forgot, make sure Barry White is playing on the stereo. The "Dr Smooth Love" reminded me of that ingredient...