Ok, here is the latest...I flashed bios 0402 again to make sure the latest cpu information was in there and this is how it now stands:
1) I can boot into windows using manual mode with anything under 2.2Ghz and be stable, yet at the stock speed I'm still unable to run Prime...I just bsod.
2) Manual overclocking is still totally useless with this chip/mobo combo...I don't even post when I change the mult regardless of the speed...this one is strange.
3) If I use the auto overclock, I can boot and run stable at 5% and 10%...not sure what effect this does to the system, but I can push the cpu to 2430 or so with my memory at 1:1 running 2.5-3-2-7 1T @ 2.8 vdimm.
4) I can't post at %15 overclock.
I wish I had another chip to try as I'm starting to think it has something to do with the Venice stepping. Just a thought.