Yes the mem dividers can be set manually, originally alot of people where very confused by the way ASUS labeled the dividers as "Max memory clock", but they have been there since day 1. Only if you use the AUTO "Max memory clock" setting will it set them automatically keeping ram under 217.
95% of the early problems with this board can be attributed to user error or lack of knowledge about the new NF4 boards. The Asus was the first to hit the market and has out sold all the other NF4 boards combined by a large margin, this explains the number of problem posts early on. Every teenage computer geek wannabe had to have one
IMO the Asus is the best, most stable and mature of all the NF4 boards. I love mine, and have been running a 600mhz overclock since I built it in December. The only advice I would have about buying this or any other NF4 board, don't use cheap components! Especially important on NF4 is power supply, all of these boards seem to require high quality PS with very little voltage fluctuations.
It sounds like your sources for computer parts are pretty limited in Pakistan. Can you order online from the UK or other EU countries?