i have both good and bad experiences with both asian and white hair dressers....
1st key is finding a pictcure of the haircut that you would like to have ....
i.e. go on the net and look around to find a haircut and then print it out

if you do, most likely they hairdresser will not cut your way too far off the way you would like to
2nd key is finding a reputable hair salon, yes it will be epensive ($30+) but it is definitely worth it

two places i goto are 1) toni and guy (sp??) and 2) Regis'
3rd find a hair dresser who knows how to cut your hair and stick with him or her
good luck!