Are you turned off by girls coming on too strongly?

[Garet Jax]

Originally posted by: moshquerade
exactly what i was thinking.

i figured the consensus would feel this way, but if someone keeps humping your leg constantly it's going to get played out and tiring.
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Agreed. I broke it off with a girlfriend who came on way too strong for my liking.

 

[MisterJackson]

Yeah, I just broke up with a woman like that. This is officially the fifth time I've left her @ss. She always comes back, and always "persuades me" to forget things and think with the wrong head. Then she'll try to act like nothing wrong ever even happened before.

This time though, instead of being around my house this weekend where she could show up unannounced I took my son to the beach and didn't answer her calls or txt messages. she finally said via vm that she got the point and I have yet to hear back from her.

Crazy wild awesome sex is really really great (she was even down for a 3some), but when the girls not right in the head and you're looking for something more (or at least in addition too) than great sex you just gotta get outta that crap.

BTW, my experience, every woman that I've ever encountered that is an overtly strong sexual person has ALWAYS had something bad in that area happen to them at some point early on in their life. Which is odd because I always figured something traumatic in that area early on would cause a girl to close up even more.

 

[sixone]

Originally posted by: MaxDepth
I appreciate a woman who knows what she wants as I certainly don't know what the hell she wants.

If I'm interested in a guy, I'm gonna make sure he knows it. If he thinks I'm too aggressive, so be it - better to find out before I waste more time on him.

But once I know he knows I'm interested, I'll back way off and let him show me where he wants to go with it. Some guys don't get that, and that's another thing I want to know early on.

 

[SpecialEd]

Guys want to persue girls and girls like to be pursued by guys. That is the more common situation and personally, I think its the way it should be.

 

[imported_goku]

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: purbeast0

Originally posted by: bignateyk

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: purbeast0

Originally posted by: bigrash

Originally posted by: bignateyk
This isnt really a YAGT..

so theres this girl ive been hooking up with lately, and its gotten to the point where when we go out to the bars or parties shes coming on WAY too strongly, and frankly, its a turnoff.

I actually turned down sex last night when she came over, and pretended to fall asleep.
Its not a serious relationship at all, and I think i might just break it off.

So what say you ATOT.. are you turned off by this behavior?

you got issues

exactly what i was thinking.

i figured the consensus would feel this way, but if someone keeps humping your leg constantly it's going to get played out and tiring.

exactly. When theres absolutely no effort needed it kinda takes the fun out of it (at least after the first or second hookup)

if she's hot is does not matter. i mean i would bang my GF like 5 times a day if I had the opportunity, and we've been together for like 4 years.

5 times/day - 7 days a week?

i don't care how horny you are that would be overkill after awhile.

Considering that people on this forum fap at least 3 times a day, I'd say that would be for an 'average day'..

 

[pontifex]

Originally posted by: SpecialEd
Guys want to persue girls and girls like to be pursued by guys. That is the more common situation and personally, I think its the way it should be.

why play games? if a girl likes a guy or vice versa, why not just tell them instead of playing all kinds of mind games and stupid crap. and the same goes with not liking someone. just fvcking tell the person you're not interested. not leading them around and keeping their hopes up.

 

[MustangSVT]

depends on the girl

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: goku

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: purbeast0

Originally posted by: bignateyk

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: purbeast0

Originally posted by: bigrash

Originally posted by: bignateyk
This isnt really a YAGT..

so theres this girl ive been hooking up with lately, and its gotten to the point where when we go out to the bars or parties shes coming on WAY too strongly, and frankly, its a turnoff.

I actually turned down sex last night when she came over, and pretended to fall asleep.
Its not a serious relationship at all, and I think i might just break it off.

So what say you ATOT.. are you turned off by this behavior?

you got issues

exactly what i was thinking.

i figured the consensus would feel this way, but if someone keeps humping your leg constantly it's going to get played out and tiring.

exactly. When theres absolutely no effort needed it kinda takes the fun out of it (at least after the first or second hookup)

if she's hot is does not matter. i mean i would bang my GF like 5 times a day if I had the opportunity, and we've been together for like 4 years.

5 times/day - 7 days a week?

i don't care how horny you are that would be overkill after awhile.

Considering that people on this forum fap at least 3 times a day, I'd say that would be for an 'average day'..

same thing - they don't fap 3x/day 365days/yr.
so having sex that often would get to be too much. a marathon sex day here or there is fine, but not every.single.day.

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: purbeast0

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: purbeast0

Originally posted by: bignateyk

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: purbeast0

Originally posted by: bigrash

Originally posted by: bignateyk
This isnt really a YAGT..

so theres this girl ive been hooking up with lately, and its gotten to the point where when we go out to the bars or parties shes coming on WAY too strongly, and frankly, its a turnoff.

I actually turned down sex last night when she came over, and pretended to fall asleep.
Its not a serious relationship at all, and I think i might just break it off.

So what say you ATOT.. are you turned off by this behavior?

you got issues

exactly what i was thinking.

i figured the consensus would feel this way, but if someone keeps humping your leg constantly it's going to get played out and tiring.

exactly. When theres absolutely no effort needed it kinda takes the fun out of it (at least after the first or second hookup)

if she's hot is does not matter. i mean i would bang my GF like 5 times a day if I had the opportunity, and we've been together for like 4 years.

5 times/day - 7 days a week?

i don't care how horny you are that would be overkill after awhile.

obviously this was an exaggeration ...

but once a day hell yea that is very doable. oh and our record is 7

you've been together 4 years though. the OP is not even sure he likes this girl.
big difference.

 

[Saint Nick]

You turned down sex?

What the hell?

 

[SpecialEd]

Originally posted by: pontifex

Originally posted by: SpecialEd
Guys want to persue girls and girls like to be pursued by guys. That is the more common situation and personally, I think its the way it should be.

why play games? if a girl likes a guy or vice versa, why not just tell them instead of playing all kinds of mind games and stupid crap. and the same goes with not liking someone. just fvcking tell the person you're not interested. not leading them around and keeping their hopes up.

I'm not saying that people should be messing with each other. I agree that people need to honest with their feelings in romantic situations and not play mind games. However I do believe what I said above. If a guy likes a girl, maybe he should buy some flowers for her. If she likes him back, then she accepts them. If she doesn't, then she should repectfully decline (awkward, but honest).

I'm just saying that if a guy likes a girl, then he wants to do nice things for her. If a girl likes a guy, then she likes it when he does nice things for her. No mind games.

 

[y2kc]

Aggressive women turn me off when we first meet. I like to make the first move when I feel the time is right. It also depends on how they make the move...

After the relationship has been established however, I dig it alot.

 

[imported_goku]

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: goku

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: purbeast0

Originally posted by: bignateyk

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: purbeast0

Originally posted by: bigrash

Originally posted by: bignateyk
This isnt really a YAGT..

so theres this girl ive been hooking up with lately, and its gotten to the point where when we go out to the bars or parties shes coming on WAY too strongly, and frankly, its a turnoff.

I actually turned down sex last night when she came over, and pretended to fall asleep.
Its not a serious relationship at all, and I think i might just break it off.

So what say you ATOT.. are you turned off by this behavior?

you got issues

exactly what i was thinking.

i figured the consensus would feel this way, but if someone keeps humping your leg constantly it's going to get played out and tiring.

exactly. When theres absolutely no effort needed it kinda takes the fun out of it (at least after the first or second hookup)

if she's hot is does not matter. i mean i would bang my GF like 5 times a day if I had the opportunity, and we've been together for like 4 years.

5 times/day - 7 days a week?

i don't care how horny you are that would be overkill after awhile.

Considering that people on this forum fap at least 3 times a day, I'd say that would be for an 'average day'..

same thing - they don't fap 3x/day 365days/yr.
so having sex that often would get to be too much. a marathon sex day here or there is fine, but not every.single.day.

Are you saying you've got proof of that? Of course they fap 3X a day all year round, they're horney as hell. If things start to sag, put on some porn..

 

[meltdown75]

Originally posted by: Ulfhednar

Originally posted by: bignateyk
This isnt really a YAGT..

How is this not a YAGT?

Because it's a COT...

Coming Out Thread.

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: goku

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: goku

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: purbeast0

Originally posted by: bignateyk

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: purbeast0

Originally posted by: bigrash

Originally posted by: bignateyk
This isnt really a YAGT..

so theres this girl ive been hooking up with lately, and its gotten to the point where when we go out to the bars or parties shes coming on WAY too strongly, and frankly, its a turnoff.

I actually turned down sex last night when she came over, and pretended to fall asleep.
Its not a serious relationship at all, and I think i might just break it off.

So what say you ATOT.. are you turned off by this behavior?

you got issues

exactly what i was thinking.

i figured the consensus would feel this way, but if someone keeps humping your leg constantly it's going to get played out and tiring.

exactly. When theres absolutely no effort needed it kinda takes the fun out of it (at least after the first or second hookup)

if she's hot is does not matter. i mean i would bang my GF like 5 times a day if I had the opportunity, and we've been together for like 4 years.

5 times/day - 7 days a week?

i don't care how horny you are that would be overkill after awhile.

Considering that people on this forum fap at least 3 times a day, I'd say that would be for an 'average day'..

same thing - they don't fap 3x/day 365days/yr.
so having sex that often would get to be too much. a marathon sex day here or there is fine, but not every.single.day.

Are you saying you've got proof of that? Of course they fap 3X a day all year round, they're horney as hell. If things start to sag, put on some porn..

are you saying you have proof to the contrary? i guess we both are conjecturing. i think i'm correct though.

 

[SlitheryDee]

Might take a while but it would eventually get old.

 

[xtknight]

Yes, unless she's mean on occasion. Then it really feels good when she's all nice to you (you know she means it). Sexual tension/amplification is a key part of a long-lasting relationship. If she does it all the time...yawn...is she really being honest with herself?

If she's the "just a friend" type...meh..just ugh... I really don't like it in that case.

 

[FrustratedUser]

Originally posted by: sixone

Originally posted by: MaxDepth
I appreciate a woman who knows what she wants as I certainly don't know what the hell she wants.

If I'm interested in a guy, I'm gonna make sure he knows it. If he thinks I'm too aggressive, so be it - better to find out before I waste more time on him.

But once I know he knows I'm interested, I'll back way off and let him show me where he wants to go with it. Some guys don't get that, and that's another thing I want to know early on.

So you're on of those who comes on pretty strong (or makes it clear), then backs off and plays games leaving the guys....

Most guys think of girls like that as bitc....

 

[FrustratedUser]

Originally posted by: SpecialEd

Originally posted by: pontifex

Originally posted by: SpecialEd
Guys want to persue girls and girls like to be pursued by guys. That is the more common situation and personally, I think its the way it should be.

why play games? if a girl likes a guy or vice versa, why not just tell them instead of playing all kinds of mind games and stupid crap. and the same goes with not liking someone. just fvcking tell the person you're not interested. not leading them around and keeping their hopes up.

I'm not saying that people should be messing with each other. I agree that people need to honest with their feelings in romantic situations and not play mind games. However I do believe what I said above. If a guy likes a girl, maybe he should buy some flowers for her. If she likes him back, then she accepts them. If she doesn't, then she should repectfully decline (awkward, but honest).

I'm just saying that if a guy likes a girl, then he wants to do nice things for her. If a girl likes a guy, then she likes it when he does nice things for her. No mind games.

True. It is very simple actually but somehow it goes to sh1t.

 

[JulesMaximus]

No, I like that quality in a woman.