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I've never really been a joiner. Was forced to go to some 4H meetings as a kid (great organization, just wasn't my thing), didn't join clubs in high school, didn't pledge in college, never sought out like-minded hobbyists or volunteers in college or as an adult.
For those of you that are joiners, do you often get frustrated with the arbitrariness and time wasting of the leadership of whatever organization you're with? That's been one of my primary reasons for not joining; the decision making processes of informal interest groups seems like meetings at work but with less direction, leadership or sense, a bunch of people trying to assert control over each other and the group with no basis for who is actually in charge. Or have I just sampled some poorly organized groups?
For those of you that are joiners, do you often get frustrated with the arbitrariness and time wasting of the leadership of whatever organization you're with? That's been one of my primary reasons for not joining; the decision making processes of informal interest groups seems like meetings at work but with less direction, leadership or sense, a bunch of people trying to assert control over each other and the group with no basis for who is actually in charge. Or have I just sampled some poorly organized groups?
