WAIT a second. His wife wasn't working for them anymore. This is in their records, but they just didn't stop sending money. This means someone wired the OP money (at this point it doesn't matter who sent his wife the money, does it? I wouldn't think so...), he told them to stop, they eventually did, and he wanted to pay it all back- but they couldn't take it back. So 3 years later, they want it back plus more. wtf? If they messed up and didn't even ask for it back (seeing as they didn't mail it to the right address) wouldn't this rest entirely on their shoulders? Everyone is saying "you shouldn't have spent the money", but he didn't- he has more than that in his bank account. They failed to notify him to pay it back, so I don't see where he is in the wrong.