Originally posted by: yellowfiero
Originally posted by: TheEmperorOfIceCream
how many of you consciously make an effort to approach women every day in order to find out if they're the kind of girl that you want to do, and then make an effort to follow through with getting what you want after you've determined that they are good enough for you?
Shallow. Maybe you wouldn't be good enough for them.
If a woman thinks you're not good enough for her, you're not going to get very far - BUT this can be handled by either calibrating your percieved value to her(if you want to know how to do this, ask), or simply by finding another girl who is "good enough for you(and vice versa)."
Shallow? Well, would it be more shallow to go after women you don't think are good enough for you??
OK, I'll step back from the frame of 'good enough,' and call it something more ameniable: how about "someone that appears to be a good match." But, even then, there are lots of girls I just don't want to be around because they have serious mental health issues that get in the way of having a good relationship, no matter how hot they are.