approaching women in order to get some

EmperorOfIceCream

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how many of you consciously make an effort to approach women every day in order to find out if they're the kind of girl that you want to do, and then make an effort to follow through with getting what you want after you've determined that they are good enough for you?
 

Judgement

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Originally posted by: TheEmperorOfIceCream
how many of you consciously make an effort to approach women every day in order to find out if they're the kind of girl that you want to do, and then make an effort to follow through with getting what you want after you've determined that they are good enough for you?

i love you man
 

theNEOone

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i've been dating my g/f for 6 years, but if i weren't committed i'd be hitting on chicks like i was barry bonds on steroids - wait a minute........

oh, and can you make your name any fvcking longer please? it's not distorted the tables enough......
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acemcmac

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negative... I'll take my car and my computer over teh GF life any day... They cost about the same.
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Freejack2

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Why is it that Offspring's Hit That came to mind when I read this thread title?
And why is it I'm even bothering to post in this thread?

I should sleep. :p
 

EmperorOfIceCream

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Originally posted by: acemcmac
negative... I'll take my car and my computer over teh GF life any day... They cost about the same.
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Why isn't part of your approach determining that the woman is willing(and eager) to pay for her sh!t, and maybe even for some of your sh!t. There are women out there that will do this.
 

flxnimprtmscl

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Originally posted by: TheEmperorOfIceCream
Originally posted by: acemcmac
negative... I'll take my car and my computer over teh GF life any day... They cost about the same.
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Why isn't part of your approach determining that the woman is willing(and eager) to pay for her sh!t, and maybe even for some of your sh!t. There are women out there that will do this.

Women who try to get men to pay for their stuff is weak. Men who do the same are just as pathetic. That means you too in case I put too fine a point on it.

 

EmperorOfIceCream

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Originally posted by: flxnimprtmscl
Originally posted by: TheEmperorOfIceCream
Originally posted by: acemcmac
negative... I'll take my car and my computer over teh GF life any day... They cost about the same.
rolleye.gif
Why isn't part of your approach determining that the woman is willing(and eager) to pay for her sh!t, and maybe even for some of your sh!t. There are women out there that will do this.

Women who try to get men to pay for their stuff is weak. Men who do the same are just as pathetic. That means you too in case I put too fine a point on it.
I think you misunderstood the function of my comment to acemcmac, which was to subcommunicate that he is making excuses, and specifically that the excuse he made is bull, and also that there are options in terms of what you can choose when you're out there meeting women.

 

TallBill

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meh.. back when i knew a crapload of people, yes I did act like that with my female friends.. ended up getting into a few relationships like that. i am very flirty with girls.
 

Analog

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Originally posted by: TheEmperorOfIceCream
how many of you consciously make an effort to approach women every day in order to find out if they're the kind of girl that you want to do, and then make an effort to follow through with getting what you want after you've determined that they are good enough for you?

Shallow. Maybe you wouldn't be good enough for them.
 

EmperorOfIceCream

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Originally posted by: yellowfiero
Originally posted by: TheEmperorOfIceCream
how many of you consciously make an effort to approach women every day in order to find out if they're the kind of girl that you want to do, and then make an effort to follow through with getting what you want after you've determined that they are good enough for you?

Shallow. Maybe you wouldn't be good enough for them.
If a woman thinks you're not good enough for her, you're not going to get very far - BUT this can be handled by either calibrating your percieved value to her(if you want to know how to do this, ask), or simply by finding another girl who is "good enough for you(and vice versa)."

Shallow? Well, would it be more shallow to go after women you don't think are good enough for you??

OK, I'll step back from the frame of 'good enough,' and call it something more ameniable: how about "someone that appears to be a good match." But, even then, there are lots of girls I just don't want to be around because they have serious mental health issues that get in the way of having a good relationship, no matter how hot they are.
 

Red Dawn

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Originally posted by: acemcmac
negative... I'll take my car and my computer over teh GF life any day... They cost about the same.
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Well that's one sure way to make sure that the gene pool will be cleansed.
 

EmperorOfIceCream

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Originally posted by: rh71
This is ATOT, not a bar.
I hope you're not implying that we can only talk about things related to things you do when you're not in a bar or other place that exists outside of something that is not online, or is not ever, or wasn't ever ATOT.
 

rh71

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Originally posted by: TheEmperorOfIceCream
Originally posted by: rh71
This is ATOT, not a bar.
I hope you're not implying that we can only talk about things related to things you do when you're not in a bar or other place that exists outside of something that is not online, or is not ever, or wasn't ever ATOT.
Well the implication is that it's not likely people here look to score with every chick they meet. Do you doubt that ? My thought was that you'll find more of those kinds (take that as you will) go to bars because it's all there for you. The drinks, the women, and the reason that brought them all together. Feel free to talk all you want. Merely 1 person's opinion.
 

EmperorOfIceCream

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Originally posted by: rh71
Originally posted by: TheEmperorOfIceCream
Originally posted by: rh71
This is ATOT, not a bar.
I hope you're not implying that we can only talk about things related to things you do when you're not in a bar or other place that exists outside of something that is not online, or is not ever, or wasn't ever ATOT.
Well the implication is that it's not likely people here look to score with every chick they meet. Do you doubt that ? My thought was that you'll find more of those kinds (take that as you will) go to bars because it's all there for you. The drinks, the women, and the reason that brought them all together. Feel free to talk all you want. Merely 1 person's opinion.
A major part of the implication of my original post was NOT to find just any woman and score with her, but to find many women, and sift through them until you find one who is ....just your size;) (both in terms of looks and personality)

I'm also actually interested in how many people here actually do have an ACTIVE interest in meeting new women, alongside their interest in visiting ATOT forums.

Yes, I know that I can go to a bar to find people who are desperate enough to hit it with any woman that will give it up for them.

 

cerebusPu

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i dont really have a clue on how to pick up girls at the bar. i feel like the true dork that i am and instantly realize Im out of place. i mainly go with friends, and when i do i dont really talk to anyone else besides my friends.

 

kenshorin

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Originally posted by: TheEmperorOfIceCream
Originally posted by: rh71
My thought was that you'll find more of those kinds (take that as you will) go to bars because it's all there for you. The drinks, the women, and the reason that brought them all together.
A major part of the implication of my original post was NOT to find just any woman and score with her, but to find many women, and sift through them until you find one who is ....just your size;)

...and to find many women, you have to go someplace where they are and start with one. You think 800 women for you to meet are just going to fall out of the sky for you to sift through them?

skywalker... AHEM I mean EoIC, get off ATOT and go OUTSIDE if you want to meet ANYONE.
 

jjones

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Does it have to be a conscious effort? What if it's a natural inclination, does that count?