Anyone want to go Clubbing tonight in Atlanta?

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Ryan

Lifer
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Originally posted by: Martgorb
No I really am devastated I just don't know how to deal with it, like I said I am losing my mind. My Ex is still calling to me crying and we both still tell eachother we will love eachother forever (in whatever form that entails) it's just one big mess. It's over, but right now its all tangled up and screwed up and I know she still loves me but she is the one who is insisting we don't get back together. Like the sucker I am I would get back with her in a second. And I even read the email talking about the guy she cheated on me with. Even though he was a nasty pencil-necked dork (i had seen him before at her sister's wedding that had just happened) and I realize it was out of her own insanity and drunkenness that made it happen. Even after all this I am going to invite her over for "one last goodbye". I will be in a tuxedo with about 100 candles throughout my apartment and a love song playing. I will then give her flowers and read her a poem that I just finalized. If she has any feelings left...maybe that will win her.

Yea, it was definitly a good thing you guys aren't together. Maybe she left you because you seem a little "light in the loafers" ;)
 

iamme

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don't invite her over. get some your old guy friends together. hang out, play sports, do guy things.

learn to be happy by yourself first and then see if you still want to be with her. (even if this takes months or years). you'll be a better person in the long run.
 

Ryan

Lifer
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Originally posted by: TommyVercetti
First love huh? People actually do that kind of stuff, candles, poems and what not?

ONly crazy people.
 

guapo337

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Originally posted by: Millennium
Only one problem M4H... Atlanta not Alaska. Huge difference.

i think his comment was in reference to clubbing seals on alaska.. hence the "my good club is in the shop" comment. i'd love to go seal clubbing, too.

 

Martgorb

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Well crap she wants to go to dinner tonight with me so whatever I guess I will. Just gonna play it cool and pretend I don't care...
 

cmv

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I'd seriously keep the relationship cool for a couple months. I'd almost say that if she cheated on you, it is over. Of course the breakup sex might be good ;).
 

Storm

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Sorry to her about you and your fiancee, but she cheated on you man when she was your fiancee. Don't try to down play the fact that she got drunk and got jiggly with it with some guy. Lets say you do in fact take her back what if something worse happens in the future when you are married? Are you going to try to win her back again? My point being since she agreed to marry you ie become your fiancee, she shouldnt fvck up like that...

Now mistakes do happen but thats no excuse for getting trashed then hooking up with someone when you're engaged. I'm not saying cheating in a regular relationship is good Im saying cheating in a relationship with someone you're going to possibly marry is worse a lot worse...
 

phatj

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forget ur ex girl, go to the club and get some a$$ and then get more a$$

Oops double post =/
 
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how come no is asking why a 19 year old has a fiance...sheeeeet....thats way to young...im 24 and i aint ready for a fiance yet...

u got plenty of time to shop around and find a real women who wouldnt cheat on u
 

Martgorb

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hey dudes! haha, we almost ended up fuking tonight, heavy makeout session with ass grabbing and I am confident it would have gone all the way but we were at her parent's house and she was worried her mom would wake up...hey maybe it isn't over but I'm ready to move on no matter WTF happens..
 

EvilYoda

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Originally posted by: Martgorb
hey dudes! haha, we almost ended up fuking tonight, heavy makeout session with ass grabbing and I am confident it would have gone all the way but we were at her parent's house and she was worried her mom would wake up...hey maybe it isn't over but I'm ready to move on no matter WTF happens..

definitely, definitely ready for marriage.

yikes.
 

NewSc2

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Originally posted by: Martgorb
hey dudes! haha, we almost ended up fuking tonight, heavy makeout session with ass grabbing and I am confident it would have gone all the way but we were at her parent's house and she was worried her mom would wake up...hey maybe it isn't over but I'm ready to move on no matter WTF happens..

"hey dudes! we had a long makeout session" .

/methinks cool, must've been with all the candles at your apartment, love song playing

"...but we were at her parent's house and she was worried her mom would wake up..."

/methinks wait a minute... how old are you guys... reminds me of what happened to me like.. back in junior high