I wasn't trying to one up him, I was just sharing too...It's not an f'ing contest
it's alot different than the silver theme..look at the start menu, the open programs and the start button all have no outline or any depth their bitmaps making it all look integrated. Plus, you may not be able to tell but the menu bar at the bottom fades from a darker shade in the middle to lighter at the edges of the screen. I changed from silver to this theme.
If you don't want to download the stylesXP program, the functionality comes from it patching UXTHEME.DLL. I did a simple search on google and found the uxthemepatcher.zip and patched the file. It's put out by the same people that make StylesXP