anyone try to get to know a girl way out of your league?

[radioouman]

Good looking girls love attention. Even if she isn't interested in you, she'll still talk to you because you are giving her attention.

 

[733SHiFTY]

Originally posted by: fritolays
sort of an update for those interested (7/14/2005)

I like to make these type of threads because I'll look back a year later and laugh about it... and maybe have regrets.


it's been 2 weeks since I started this thread... but have only had class three times. This entire time, I felt like we were playing mind games, catching eyes, and sending other body language. Today I talked to her since we do a lot of group work in the class... but it only lasted 2 minutes or so. Afterwards, I got a lot of mixed signals... I really can't tell. One minute, I feel there's some chemistry but the next minute, I think she may have gotten tired of waiting and moved on. We're already half way done with the class

She is naturally pretty... looks like asian version of Jessica Alba but with a better personality (Alba is too cocky and thinks she's the sht, I hate that), smart, receptive, friendly, classy, and comes from a good family (assumptions). She doesn't seem like the club go'er type, which is good.

I was actually looking at her direction and saw her face.... and realized what a lucky fool I would be to be able to date this girl... Believe me, I've come across a lot of attractive girls in my lifetime but it's been a while since I felt a "crush". Her looks alone puts her above most... but her personality is definitely what sets her apart.

I was imagining and put other asian guys I know from my past in the same situation... would this girl be interested in them too and make an effort to get to know them like she did to me?
I'm thinking the answer is Yes... and they will have taken advantage of the situations too, to become friends at least.... unlike me. That's what frustrates me. I always avoid and end up being left out

I'll update this thread again in 3 weeks with the finale.
I'm not expecting much.. and even if nothing comes out of this, I would love to meet this type of girl when I'm 25 or so, because this is type I want a long term with. (I'm only 20 but already thinking of the type of girl I would like to marry ^^ how awkward)

lame * 10000000000000000000000000000

 

[Tiamat]

Originally posted by: akubi

Originally posted by: middlehead
Chloroform.

" Does this smell like chloroform to you? "
:laugh: :thumbsup:

LOLercup :laugh:

 

[Pepsei]

dude, you can't say the update is on page four when a lot of people customize the # of messages per page.

 

[skim milk]

Originally posted by: 733SHiFTY

Originally posted by: fritolays
sort of an update for those interested (7/14/2005)

I like to make these type of threads because I'll look back a year later and laugh about it... and maybe have regrets.


it's been 2 weeks since I started this thread... but have only had class three times. This entire time, I felt like we were playing mind games, catching eyes, and sending other body language. Today I talked to her since we do a lot of group work in the class... but it only lasted 2 minutes or so. Afterwards, I got a lot of mixed signals... I really can't tell. One minute, I feel there's some chemistry but the next minute, I think she may have gotten tired of waiting and moved on. We're already half way done with the class

She is naturally pretty... looks like asian version of Jessica Alba but with a better personality (Alba is too cocky and thinks she's the sht, I hate that), smart, receptive, friendly, classy, and comes from a good family (assumptions). She doesn't seem like the club go'er type, which is good.

I was actually looking at her direction and saw her face.... and realized what a lucky fool I would be to be able to date this girl... Believe me, I've come across a lot of attractive girls in my lifetime but it's been a while since I felt a "crush". Her looks alone puts her above most... but her personality is definitely what sets her apart.

I was imagining and put other asian guys I know from my past in the same situation... would this girl be interested in them too and make an effort to get to know them like she did to me?
I'm thinking the answer is Yes... and they will have taken advantage of the situations too, to become friends at least.... unlike me. That's what frustrates me. I always avoid and end up being left out

I'll update this thread again in 3 weeks with the finale.
I'm not expecting much.. and even if nothing comes out of this, I would love to meet this type of girl when I'm 25 or so, because this is type I want a long term with. (I'm only 20 but already thinking of the type of girl I would like to marry ^^ how awkward)

lame * 10000000000000000000000000000

update 7/16/2005

OMG hey guyz i had sex with her!!

is that what you want to hear?

seriously, that's not even what I'm after... maybe with the inconfident slutty girls I meet at nightclubs

 

[iamme]

you've got 3 weeks left.

talk to her and ask her out, or you'll be wondering "what if" for the rest of your life.

</thread>

 

[tami]

Originally posted by: Injury
a) Page 4 is non-existant for me. I have 50posts per page.

page 4 is non-existant for me as well. i have 500 posts per page.

it would be much more convenient if you posted your update in the thread BUT ALSO IN THE OP.

thanks.

 

[pclstyle]

hmm... i hope you get with her so i can take her from you. cause my game = 10million x yours.

 

[mercanucaribe]

Don't grow balls and ask her out unless you are good looking enough. You do have something to lose, your dignity and self esteem.

 

[Looney]

Originally posted by: fritolays

Originally posted by: her209

Originally posted by: aplefka
Dude just talk to her. What the hell have you got to lose?

His pride, his ego, and his self-esteem.

you nailed it

Um how are you going to lose your pride, ego, and self-esteem by just talking to her?

I met my current gf in class too... first time back to school in 5 years, about 7 years younger than me, and out of my league. I asked to borrow her pen (had one, but a good conversation starter), and small talk about class. Though i think what caught her attention was that i took apart her pen (it was a fancy mechnical one), and couldn't put it back together again, and had to ask her for another.

 

[pclstyle]

Originally posted by: Looney

Originally posted by: fritolays

Originally posted by: her209

Originally posted by: aplefka
Dude just talk to her. What the hell have you got to lose?

His pride, his ego, and his self-esteem.

you nailed it

Um how are you going to lose your pride, ego, and self-esteem by just talking to her?

I met my current gf in class too... first time back to school in 5 years, about 7 years younger than me, and out of my league. I asked to borrow her pen (had one, but a good conversation starter), and small talk about class. Though i think what caught her attention was that i took apart her pen (it was a fancy mechnical one), and couldn't put it back together again, and had to ask her for another.

lol that's gotta be the queerest thing i've ever heard. put props for getting with her

 

[chowmein]

my eyes are always bigger than my mouth.

doesn't hurt to try of course. the worst that can happen is, you go back to living your life.

fear owns most people, me included. so good luck and post a positive follow-up.