anyone try to get to know a girl way out of your league?

skim milk

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I'm taking a summer class and there is this one asian girl that caught my eyes from the beginning

I'm asian myself but of different nationality from her (lol my grammar, probably way wrong)

I seriously think she is very attractive.. her body, her face, her hair, her posture, etc.
she seems pretty confident with herself as she talks in class pretty frequently and by the way she carries herself. (I'm kind of the opposite... I haven't said a word in class yet and like to sit in the back so her confidence is somewhat intimidating)

I don't know where I'm going with this... I actually know we won't even say a word to each other but it would be nice to have a friend like that, I don't even want her as a girlfriend as she seems way out of my league but she seems cool to hang out with :eek:

 

Mrvile

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It'll be awkward if you're really that out of her league, expecially if she's a lot higher in social status than you.

But when in doubt...
 

JoeKing

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actually I've found the really pretty girls are fairly nice (not counting the born bitches) because most guys are intimidated by their looks. So when someone actually starts a conversation with them (try not to glance at boobs while doing this!) they are very receptive.
 

skim milk

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Originally posted by: Mrvile
It'll be awkward if you're really that out of her league, expecially if she's a lot higher in social status than you.

But when in doubt...

see that's the thing

I'm in a new area and only know couple people... from that same class.

The girl seems to have a lot of friends... and hang around other guys. I saw her around the college couple times after class
 

lokiju

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If theres no chance in hell that I'd be getting with her then its never been a real issue (IE she's engaged) but when thats not the case or on the even more rare cases where she's into me, I completely fvck it up!

 

Mrvile

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Originally posted by: fritolays
Originally posted by: Mrvile
It'll be awkward if you're really that out of her league, expecially if she's a lot higher in social status than you.

But when in doubt...

see that's the thing

I'm in a new area and only know couple people... from that same class.

The girl seems to have a lot of friends... and hang around other guys. I saw her around the college couple times after class

Dude, being the new guy, this is your chance. Since you don't already have a reputation or a social status, start hanging with her kind of people, be social and assertive and don't be shy.
 

skim milk

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don't get me wrong, I can pretty much talk to every girl in that class with no hesitation... but it's just her who is singled out on my mind

I see a lot of "hot" girls in school but there's nothing special about them... and I don't really care about them. but for some reason, she stands out
 

Mrvile

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Originally posted by: fritolays
don't get me wrong, I can pretty much talk to every girl in that class with no hesitation... but it's just her who is singled out on my mind

I see a lot of "hot" girls in school but there's nothing special about them... and I don't really care about them. but for some reason, she stands out

:p It's easy to talk to any girl until you start to like them...:)
 

richardycc

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maybe she wants a summer fling...if she shot you down, you will probably never see her again, go for it, u have nothing to lose!
 

Nitemare

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Originally posted by: RaynorWolfcastle
when in doubt...

whip it out...

"It's not going to suck itself"

Had a thing for smart chicks in high school....

And that is all that I'm going to tell on here because one of them lives less than 20 miles away. :D
 

StormRider

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Talk in front of the class with a semi-erection. She will notice the bulge in your pants. Since it's not a full erection, she will think you are that big when totally flaccid and become very interested in you.