Originally posted by: Frackal
Bodybuilding.com is a decent site for beginners; the key would be to research a bit and then pose your questions.
That site is big on supplements, but has a good amount of beginners and I am sure you can get some useful info on basic strategies.
To give some encouragement, for most people, with the right knowledge and tools, losing weight is a very achievable goal... it will take some effort, but consistency with moderate effort is likely to be more effective than busting your ass for a short period of time.
ie, hitting the gym a few times a week, while understanding some basic principles of nutrition that are followed most of the time, will be enough for most people to remain fairly lean. (not bber lean but a good size for their height/phenotype)