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For those of you who are smarter than everyone you know (There are probably a few of you who frequent here I would guess), I have always wondered this question. Is it hard being smarter than everybody? Is it harder to make friends? I can already guess the cool aspects, but what about the bad? >>
Let me try to give you a serious answer.
I acknowlege that there are lots of types of "smarts" but I think I know what you mean datalink. I always tested better than everyone around me, which meant that I got labeled as the "really smart guy." Because of this I felt like I had a reputation to keep up and I actually worked
really hard in school. This meant I got better grades than everyone else, and I graduated at the top of my high school class of about 900.
Unfortunately, in a lot of ways I never really felt like I fit in. I was lucky in that I had a couple really close friends, but I never had a lot of friends like most of the kids seemed to have. Besides this, I was kind of a dork. I wasnt scrawny, but I sure was goofy looking (especially in my own mind.) I had absolutely zero confidence talking to girls because of this.
Anyways, there were a lot of times when I really felt frustrated not fitting in the way some of the "less smart" kids did, but the main thing that frustrated me was that I had no skill at all with girls. This lasted until I was about 17-18 and I finally started to work through it (braces helped a lot!)
The "being smarter than everyone" didnt last after I got to school at Caltech. Now I am above average by a bit, but I am not the smartest guy any more by a long stretch. This has been really good for me socially, and I have really grown in terms of confidence. I didnt realize what I was missing until I lost my status as the "smartest guy."
Good question, hope I answered it.
