Where did you find information saying that any of those are capable of three digital outputs simultaneously?
The M2N-VM HDMI mentioned in the original post only has two digital video outputs on it - one DVI and one HDMI - and they don't work simultaneously according to the website. As far as I know all of the motherboards mentioned are limited to one digital video output and one analog video output for dual-display setups.
The only board I can think of that has three digital video outputs on it is Asus' new M3A78-EM micro ATX board (DVI, HDMI and DisplayPort outputs onboard). I just upgraded my DVR to a system based around that board last night but I haven't powered it up yet. I can't recall from the manual but I'm pretty sure it has the same output limitations. I didn't check since, again, that is a capability of the chipset and not, afaik, something that could be changed via a motherboard implementation.
If you want triple outputs in a low profile HTPC case you're going to want a 780G board with a DVI output in the backplane AND a low profile Radeon 3450/3470 with two digital outputs. Newegg
has a listing for such a card.
You could then enable surroundview (supported on ATI motherboards when an ATI video card is present) and either 1: use the DVI and HDMI output from the card and the DVI from the motherboard or 2: use the HDMI from the motherboard, DVI from the video card and get an HDMI <-> DVI cable to use with the HDMI output on the video card to your DVI device.