Originally posted by: FallenHero
Originally posted by: Private Savage
Originally posted by: FallenHero
Be prepared to be hated by 95% of the people you encounter. Its a job to be proud of...but quietly. I actually don't like to mention that I am a cop in front of people I don't know.
My dad told me that it used to be cool to be a cop back in the 60's and 70's
Those times are long over my friend. Todays society isnt nearly as respectful of police officers as they were back then. Corruption took its toll, as well as the racial tensions between minorities and police. Many departments still have some cleaning up to do and the media does not help us out AT ALL.
Furthermore, no one outside of the job will understand what you go through. NO ONE. Not your parents, closest friends (who will stop being your friend because of the change in attitude), brothers, sisters, even spouse to a certain extent. (Keep in mind the divorce rate for law enforcement is near 80%). This isn't firefighting where the public loves you even if you fvck up. If you fvck up, its a lawsuit. If you do everything by the books, its a lawsuit. Do not go into this job thinking its going to be some sort of "yee haw lets get dem badguys!" type of thing. Paperwork will eat you alive. Overtime will eat you alive. Stress beyond what you can imagine and scenes that will make you wonder why people even breed.
I truely hope you have thought about what you are getting into when you enter this profession. This isn't an easy job by any means. There is a reason why LEOs in this country are more prone to alcoholism, divorce, heart attacks and strokes. (And no, it isnt because of our diets.) Good luck, but PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE think before you act.
Despite everything I said, I wouldnt trade my job for any other (well...maybe Bill Gates). I don't work this to get rich. It's a calling for me, as well as many others.