Any Hindus or Indians (Asian) in the house?

Jzero

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OK here's the story: I work in IT for a software company, and as most of you can guess, that means I have a lot of Indian coworkers. And since Hinduism is a big religion in India, a lot of my Indian co-workers are Hindu.
It's pretty fun being able to get involved in Indian culture, learning about festivals, food, customs, cricket, etc.

Anyway, enough intro.
I'm getting ready to leave work today and one of Indian coworkers (i'm only guessing he's Hindu, actually) shows up needing help b/c his server crashed. On the half-wall above my cubicle, I keep a 2.5 gal divided aquarium with 2 Bettas (Siamese Fighting Fish) in it. As an intentional bit of irony on my part, the aquarium's lone decoration is a building with minarets that somewhat resembles the Taj Mahal. It was a cool decoration and I figured my Indian friends would get a rise out of it.

The Taj Mahal is unrelated to this.

He notices the aquarium and asks if they are my fish. I tell him they are.
He then asks me if it would be OK for him to feed my fish.
Why not? So I hand him the bottle of pellets and he says "No, I need to bring in my own food. Do they eat worms? They sell frozen worms at the market."
Now I'm not sure what worms he's referring to. There are some frozen worms that are suitable to be fed to Bettas, but I dunno if those are the ones he's talking about.
So we strike a deal that he'll bring in some of these worms and if they are the right ones, he can feed them to my fish.
I asked him why and he mentioned that it had to do with his religion, but he didn't seem to keen on explaining any further than that, and I got a vibe from him that suggested it wasn't a convenient time for him to educate me, so I didn't press him any further.

So my question is:
Is there a custom for Hindus to feed fish? Is that a festival, or a ritual, or what?
I did some Google searching, naturally, but the only thing that sounded remotely similar is that many Hindus believe that feeding wildlife is just plain good for your soul, and Hindus in India are often giving food to cows, birds, snakes, fish, even ants.
I couldn't find anything suggesting that there is a specific reason or festival in which you would want to feed fish, but his tone indicated that he had been looking for someone who had fish he could feed, so I thought there might be more to it than just doing a good deed.

Anyone have any further info?
 

MaxDSP

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Im not aware of any custom that has to do with feeding fish, but then Im not that religious to begin with :eek:

 

shikhan

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Originally posted by: MaxDSP
Im not aware of any custom that has to do with feeding fish, but then Im not that religious to begin with :eek:

What he said except I'm not religious. Period.
 

johnjbruin

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There are some religious lakes and stuff in India where fishing is illlegal and people go and feed the fishes.
For example the city of Ajmer in Rajasthan(state) has some.
You might be able to search on it.
I dont know the exact reasons.
 

johnjbruin

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Originally posted by: johnjbruin
There are some religious lakes and stuff in India where fishing is illlegal and people go and feed the fishes.
For example the city of Ajmer in Rajasthan(state) has some.
You might be able to search on it.
I dont know the exact reasons.

OH, another thing.
The confusing thing in your post is worms.
What indians feed the fishes in these lakes and stuff is definitely vegetarian.
which makes the whole thing even more confusing to me...

Maybe he just watched it on discoverry channel and wants to try it out...
rolleye.gif
 

athithi

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Originally posted by: Pliablemoose
Jzero, he just thinks you're cute & wants to hang with you
;)

LOL

Sometimes in the Hindu culture people are asked to perform some unusual rite or offering to offset an "evil-eye" or some bug with their horoscope or karma. It's possible that some astrologer or someone in his family asked him to do this, maybe because this guy or someone related to him has some problems in their life. I am fairly certain that feeding someone else's fish with frozen worms is not standard practice, though there are so many sects, sub-sects and variations in Hinduism that it is hard to say for sure. I was once asked to keep a pair of elephant idols to ward off jealousy from my co-workers and so I bought a picture-frame that has two small elephants for stands and put it on my desk - why take chances :p
 

Jzero

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I was thinking that maybe he had asked an astrologer or family member about something and they said he should feed some fish.

I dunno why he specified worms....

But what the hey! Not like fish food is particularly expensive, but if I don't turn down free food for myself, why should I turn it down for my little fishies? I don't usually feed these particular fish worms b/c I don't keep them at work, although I do give them to my 'home" fish as a treat.

And, of course, if it's good for his karma to be feeding fish, it's probably also good for my karma to help him out and provide him fish to feed, and as athithi says...
why take chances :p
 

athithi

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Originally posted by: Jzero
I was thinking that maybe he had asked an astrologer or family member about something and they said he should feed some fish.

I dunno why he specified worms....

But what the hey! Not like fish food is particularly expensive, but if I don't turn down free food for myself, why should I turn it down for my little fishies? I don't usually feed these particular fish worms b/c I don't keep them at work, although I do give them to my 'home" fish as a treat.

And, of course, if it's good for his karma to be feeding fish, it's probably also good for my karma to help him out and provide him fish to feed, and as athithi says...
why take chances :p

Jzero, of course, the flip-side could be that he's trying to pass off his bad karma onto your fish and maybe even you :D Not feeling so very friendly now, eh? ;) That's the problem with a largely interpretive religion like Hinduism :) Damned if you do, damned if you don't :confused:

j/k :)
 

Jzero

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Jzero, of course, the flip-side could be that he's trying to pass off his bad karma onto your fish and maybe even you :D Not feeling so very friendly now, eh? ;) That's the problem with a largely interpretive religion like Hinduism :) Damned if you do, damned if you don't :confused:

j/k :)
LOL
As much as I love Freedom and Ickabob (my fish) and Freedom has sentimental value b/c I bought him on 9/11/2001, and I raised Ickabob from being just a few weeks old, and he is pure-bred double-tail, at the end of the day, Bettas are fairly cheap fish, so if he dumps his bad karma on them and they kick the bucket I'll just get new ones for $2. :p

If he dumps his bad karma on me, I'll just redirect my spam filter to forward all my spam to him instead of deleting it.
That'll learn him!!


 
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I am indian and I am hindu and I have no idea what your talking about.
Needlessto say I am not your typical religious indian.. I am far less than religious but I know my customs and that's one custom that I havent heard of.