Another TridenT thread

[TridenT]

This person was a bit of a bitch to me and because of it.. It's over. Fun-fun. Thread ran its course. All well.. Hey, I gained XP! +1 on lessons learned.

Originally posted by: TridenT
What have we learned in this thread?

[*]TridenT is a loser
[*]TridenT is extremely creepy
[*]TridenT has no self-esteem
[*]TridenT is semi-suicidal
[*]

Originally posted by: MovingTarget
TridenT, you fail. Just take a lesson for this. Women don't mind guys who are shy, and that can sometimes work in their favor. However, when a question like that comes up, assertiveness is what they look for. "I guess" is about the worst possible answer you could've given. Too wishy-washy. It screams "You are a friend to me who I don't think too much of and would rather keep at an arms length at all times" or that you simply do not care.

Second, back off for a while. Pushing this in its immedeate aftermath is a BAD idea. If it comes up again in conversation (again, not initiated by you), give her the answer she deserves. If not, wait until the situation has died down and approach it the exact opposite way you usually do. Again, assertiveness. Be direct and don't pussyfoot around the issue.

Third, Ladder theory is FALSE. If you know what you are doing, going between ladders can be accomplished with relative ease. The rewards can be even greater long-term doing this, but it hurts all the more if/when you fall on your ass. Tread wisely.

This was an extremely good post.
[*]TridenT has gotten five phone numbers in the past month and has fucked up every single time.
[*]TridenT is fail.
[*]TridenT needs new shoes, new clothes, new frames for his glasses, and a new haircut. He also needs to get his acne cleared up.
[*]TridenT needs a job and a car. He also needs to get his ass straightened out in college
[*]TridenT needs to grow a pair. Needs to be more confident and assertive.

Anything else I am missing? Probably.

 

[shortylickens]

As in, she is running off with a biker dude?
Or as in, she is about to have her plug pulled?

 

[Chaotic42]

All true friendships are tested and made better by fire from time to time.

 

[TridenT]

O_O

 

[coldmeat]

Is it your penis and is that why you're no longer TridenTBoy?

 

[TridenT]

O_O

 

[IronWing]

Over how many posts do you plan on stretching this out? Spill the story or take it to L&R.

 

[Colt45]

what was the question?

 

[IronWing]

Originally posted by: Colt45
what was the question?

Her:
Do you want to make love?
Or do you just want to fool around?
You can take it seriously
Or take it somewhere else...

TridenT:
Um, fool around?

 

[her209]

Originally posted by: Colt45
what was the question?

"Do you ever plan on moving out of your parents' basement?"

 

[Corporate Thug]

Originally posted by: TridenT
So... yeah... Emotions suck and I am pretty sure I am losing a friend tonight... :'(

back story?

 

[xanis]

Originally posted by: Colt45
what was the question?

"Am I gay?"

 

[IronWing]

Originally posted by: Colt45
what was the question?

Her:
Are we going to screw or what?

TridenT:
Just let me finish this post, ferchristssake!

 

[TridenT]

O_O

 

[JS80]

Originally posted by: TridenT
Sigh..

We were talking about other stuff and she just kinda pops this question on me as we arrive at my house...

"Do you like me?" And I didn't even have to ask, "As friends or what?" Because there was context to her question already...

"Yeah, I guess I do."

She didn't really give me a fucking response... She just wanted me to say, "Yes.. I do like you." in a very straight forward way. But... like... she didn't even tell me how she felt... I just got out of the car and walked into my house.. heart racing and thinking, "nooooo, I lost an awesome friend..."

So.. yeah... Total lameness.

:laugh:

 

[TridenT]

O_O

 

[xanis]

Originally posted by: TridenT
Sigh..

We were talking about other stuff and she just kinda pops this question on me as we arrive at my house...

"Do you like me?" And I didn't even have to ask, "As friends or what?" Because there was context to her question already...

"Yeah, I guess I do."

She didn't really give me a fucking response... She just wanted me to say, "Yes.. I do like you." in a very straight forward way. But... like... she didn't even tell me how she felt... I just got out of the car and walked into my house.. heart racing and thinking, "nooooo, I lost an awesome friend..."

So.. yeah... Total lameness.

You're an idiot. You knew where she was going with it and you dropped the ball anyhow. You should have just said "yes" and told her what she wanted to hear. If you ever want to get with a chick, you can't keep being a bumbling idiot.

 

[Skeeedunt]

So what, you like this girl or not?

 

[Leros]

Don't say "I guess" when it comes to stuff like that. Women don't like it.

 

[TruePaige]

Originally posted by: TridenT
Sigh..

We were talking about other stuff and she just kinda pops this question on me as we arrive at my house...

"Do you like me?" And I didn't even have to ask, "As friends or what?" Because there was context to her question already...

"Yeah, I guess I do."

She didn't really give me a fucking response... She just wanted me to say, "Yes.. I do like you." in a very straight forward way. But... like... she didn't even tell me how she felt... I just got out of the car and walked into my house.. heart racing and thinking, "nooooo, I lost an awesome friend..."

So.. yeah... Total lameness.

*shakes head*

 

[her209]

Originally posted by: TridenT
Sigh..

We were talking about other stuff and she just kinda pops this question on me as we arrive at my house...

"Do you like me?" And I didn't even have to ask, "As friends or what?" Because there was context to her question already...

"Yeah, I guess I do."

She didn't really give me a fucking response... She just wanted me to say, "Yes.. I do like you." in a very straight forward way. But... like... she didn't even tell me how she felt... I just got out of the car and walked into my house.. heart racing and thinking, "nooooo, I lost an awesome friend..."

So.. yeah... Total lameness.

She was driving?

 

[Kyle]

Originally posted by: TridenT
Sigh..

We were talking about other stuff and she just kinda pops this question on me as we arrive at my house...

"Do you like me?" And I didn't even have to ask, "As friends or what?" Because there was context to her question already...

"Yeah, I guess I do."

She didn't really give me a fucking response... She just wanted me to say, "Yes.. I do like you." in a very straight forward way. But... like... she didn't even tell me how she felt... I just got out of the car and walked into my house.. heart racing and thinking, "nooooo, I lost an awesome friend..."

So.. yeah... Total lameness.

How the hell do you figure that you just lost a good friend? So you made an ass of yourself- doesnt mean it has to ruin your friendship- just give her a call...
And next time, pretend you have an ounce of confidence.

 

[Corporate Thug]

Originally posted by: TridenT
Sigh..

We were talking about other stuff and she just kinda pops this question on me as we arrive at my house...

"Do you like me?" And I didn't even have to ask, "As friends or what?" Because there was context to her question already...

"Yeah, I guess I do."

She didn't really give me a fucking response... She just wanted me to say, "Yes.. I do like you." in a very straight forward way. But... like... she didn't even tell me how she felt... I just got out of the car and walked into my house.. heart racing and thinking, "nooooo, I lost an awesome friend..."

So.. yeah... Total lameness.

jump to conclusions much? Maybe in she's trying to evaluate the situation? And put it in L&R

 

[TridenT]

O_O

 

[guyver01]

Originally posted by: TridenT
I want to die already.

what's stopping you?