Another day, another female teacher accused of having sex with a student

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NFS4

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How does a couple of teachers boinking even compare to student-teacher sex?

Oh, and I so went to the wong damn school...

Whoops, meant to put football players :)

That being said, the cheerleading coach was probably in her early 20s at the time (and the player was probably 16 or 17 at the time).
 

BarkingGhostar

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Fuck, I hope this pervert gets put on some kind of sex crime register.
I'm sure she will, but has anyone considered that maybe these public registers will allow for one perp to get with another perp to become a Jack and Jill pair of perps?
 

shortylickens

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Eli

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When are we going to learn that this type of behavior is completely normal?

Humans being humans.. whodathunkit.
 

Fritzo

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When all is said and done ... what's going to (realistically) happen to her? She'll lose her job and get a slap on the wrist.

Now what would happen if she were a man and the student a 14 year old girl?

In that situation, the man is always portrayed as a proper rapist. "I'M GONNA HOLD YA DOWN AN' GET YA!"

In the case of a woman seducing a boy, most people don't see it like that.
 

HAL9000

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I'm sure she will, but has anyone considered that maybe these public registers will allow for one perp to get with another perp to become a Jack and Jill pair of perps?

It hadn't occurred to me, but that's probably because the fact that they are on these registers means they aren't attracted to one and other but rather children etc, like this woman.
 

Eli

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It hadn't occurred to me, but that's probably because the fact that they are on these registers means they aren't attracted to one and other but rather children etc, like this woman.

LOL

Keep living in your fantasy world where human beings don't become sexual creatures until the moment the clock strikes midnight on their 18th birthday.

14 years old is not a child.
 

HAL9000

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LOL

Keep living in your fantasy world where human beings don't become sexual creatures until the moment the clock strikes midnight on their 18th birthday.

I'm fine with children developing sexually, it happens, they should just be sexually active with each other not with adults. Adults who prey on children should be locked up, and it's worse if they are in positions of authority.

The legal definition of "child" generally refers to a minor, otherwise known as a person younger than the age of majority. - Wikipedia

You'll find that the majority of sites will agree that legally, being under the age of majority (in the UK 18) makes you a child.
 

Eli

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I'm fine with children developing sexually, it happens, they should just be sexually active with each other not with adults. Adults who prey on children should be locked up, and it's worse if they are in positions of authority.



You'll find that the majority of sites will agree that legally, being under the age of majority (in the UK 18) makes you a child.

Fair enough. The only reason this is news is because the woman is a teacher. I'm not sure how I feel about that in and of itself. These cases aren't purported as the woman abusing her position of power though, everyone focuses on the sexual nature of things.

Like it or not, it's different when the roles are reversed. The kid will be fine. Probably end up better off than all the sexually repressed basement dwellers we have around here.. lol.
 

hanoverphist

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one of the tennis coaches was banging a few of the varsity guys at my hs as well, we didnt tell. didnt really care. not sure how she got them either, she was mid-30s and a ginger. not the emma stone type of ginger either. now, our new english teacher that was 24 and always wore low cut sweaters, no bra and skirts. thats the one everyone wanted. lots of rumors, but no champions that i know of.

mebbe the ones that get caught are told on by jealous classmates
 

HAL9000

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Fair enough. The only reason this is news is because the woman is a teacher. I'm not sure how I feel about that in and of itself. These cases aren't purported as the woman abusing her position of power though, everyone focuses on the sexual nature of things.

Like it or not, it's different when the roles are reversed. The kid will be fine. Probably end up better than all the sexually repressed basement dwellers we have around here.. lol.

Entirely possible, but I think being put into this complex, and now very public, position at this young age will be detrimental to the kids mental health. People who are sexually abused often end up being abusers themselves.

IMO Everyone has their sexuality shaped by their first experience with the sex world, if this was his, then he may spend the rest of his life looking for authoritative older women, is that a good or bad thing? Neither, but I don't think this woman had the right to shape his life in that way.
 

preslove

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one of the tennis coaches was banging a few of the varsity guys at my hs as well, we didnt tell. didnt really care. not sure how she got them either, she was mid-30s and a ginger. not the emma stone type of ginger either. now, our new english teacher that was 24 and always wore low cut sweaters, no bra and skirts. thats the one everyone wanted. lots of rumors, but no champions that i know of.

mebbe the ones that get caught are told on by jealous classmates

This is an interesting hypothesis.
 

Eli

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Entirely possible, but I think being put into this complex, and now very public, position at this young age will be detrimental to the kids mental health. People who are sexually abused often end up being abusers themselves.

IMO Everyone has their sexuality shaped by their first experience with the sex world, if this was his, then he may spend the rest of his life looking for authoritative older women, is that a good or bad thing? Neither, but I don't think this woman had the right to shape his life in that way.

Hmm. You do bring up good points... :thumbsup:

I just don't agree with the strict black and white laws we put on all things sexual. It's like No Tolerance policies. It just doesn't work in the real world.

Colorado's Age of Consent was 14 until not long ago... A lot of states are 16.

I agree that 14 is young, but by 14 there's a hell of a lot of testosterone flowing through a guy's veins. Most 14 year old guys would be pretty thrilled to have such an opportunity.
 

HAL9000

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Hmm. You do bring up good points... :thumbsup:

I just don't agree with the strict black and white laws we put on all things sexual. It's like No Tolerance policies. It just doesn't work in the real world.

Colorado's Age of Consent was 14 until not long ago... A lot of states are 16.

I agree that 14 is young, but by 14 there's a hell of a lot of testosterone flowing through a guy's veins. Most 14 year old guys would be pretty thrilled to have such an opportunity.

You're right it is far to subjective to just stick an age on things and say, from here it's OK for all, things aren't that absolute, but when it comes to figures of authority there needs to be boundaries, I'm fine with two 14 year olds having sex with each other, but with a 30 year old who has had much more experience, it will be a different "type" of sex, rather than young inexperienced learning about the world with your partner sex it will be one dominant adult showing a child sex as they know it. That I'm not all for.
 

TheVrolok

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Teachers fucked students back in the day too... there just weren't any snitches back then.

I almost know for a fact that one of our HS football players was nailing the cheerleading coach, but why the hell would I say anything? None of my damn business.

So true. I knew a guy who was hooking up with one of our teachers toward the end of our senior year. It's just different now, with texting, camera phones, social networking sites, etc... word gets out, and around much much faster/easier than ever before. Also, kids today are fucking stupid.
 

Sonikku

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Women should serve hard time for this shit. Men sure as hell do when they commit the same crime. Why shouldn't they? I'm all for equality but equality is a two way street. Equality means you get the same pay for doing the same work. Equality also means you pay the same penalty when engaging in the same wrong behavior.
 

OBLAMA2009

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So true. I knew a guy who was hooking up with one of our teachers toward the end of our senior year. It's just different now, with texting, camera phones, social networking sites, etc... word gets out, and around much much faster/easier than ever before. Also, kids today are fucking stupid.

its pretty obvious that lots of interschool balling is occurring. imagine if you were a teacher and there were all these hot teenage chicks around you all day, you be balling them too. also how many times at a school do marrried teachers come back from summer now married to each other. school is a great place to be trolling for sex
 

paperfist

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What the hell is a social science teacher?

And who said the kid ratted out the teacher?

When are we going to learn that this type of behavior is completely normal?

Humans being humans.. whodathunkit.

I know times change and all, but 20 years ago women always wanted to hang with older, mature men who had some cash and could keep it going for longer then a minute. So in that aspect it's not normal. There must be gigantic self esteem issues with these SILFs.
 

alkemyst

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What the hell is a social science teacher?

Since you are talking about 20 years ago, social science was pretty common. It's about politics and civics.


I know times change and all, but 20 years ago women always wanted to hang with older, mature men who had some cash and could keep it going for longer then a minute. So in that aspect it's not normal. There must be gigantic self esteem issues with these SILFs.

Men and Women have always had interests in girl/boytoys. They just didn't talk about it like today where every TV show makes being a Cougar something to strive for. That's a lot of what interests these teachers...there is even a name Puma now for the 20-30 somethings.

I'd say the average 16 year old today has no problem with staying power, they have been usually getting laid since 14.
 

Kadarin

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Entirely possible, but I think being put into this complex, and now very public, position at this young age will be detrimental to the kids mental health. People who are sexually abused often end up being abusers themselves.

IMO Everyone has their sexuality shaped by their first experience with the sex world, if this was his, then he may spend the rest of his life looking for authoritative older women, is that a good or bad thing? Neither, but I don't think this woman had the right to shape his life in that way.

You are assuming that this was actual abuse, rather than "abuse" only by the legal definition of it. It is entirely possible that the student was the sexual aggressor here.