Another addition to the HPKeeper Saga of Girl problems

[hpkeeper]

Okay... I there is a girl that I work with, she's not just a co-worker, she's a really good friend as well. She's my age and I like her allot. I think she likes me back, but the only problem is... is that she has a boyfriend. She talks to him frequently and it's a rarity that I see her without him when we're not at work. I think that they are kind of "on the rocks" right now... whenever I see them they don't seem to go together or want to be near each other. One of the two of them is always with a group rather than with their "Significant other".

To make a long story short... What the hell can I do???? I like her allot and it's not as if she hasn't been sending me "signals", but she has a boyfriend. She semi-knows how I feel... at least I think she does, I haven't come out and said it to her, but I've definately taken initiative to spend more time with her and to take her to more formal events...

WHAT DO I DO????

 

[whizbang]

Tell her you're gay. Then you can spend all the time you want with her without her boyfriend getting in the way.

 

[pulse8]

Well, first stop using allot for the words a lot. Secondly, I wouldn't do anything until she's out of the relationship with her boyfriend. It can very much backfire on you and you can turn out to be the bad guy. Just be her friend, but keep things playful and wait for the boyfriend to be gone. Just don't count on it.

 

[TaylorD]

and itll really boost her self esteem when you tell her she has made you straight again.

 

[SackOfAllTrades]

<< Tell her you're gay. >>


just don't tell her she's gay

 

[blueghost75]

my advice is to just be there for her. don't move in on her or anything, just be a good freind. If she breaks up with this guy, then you can make your move, and she will be that much happier with you because you were there for her....

 

[Linux23]

get her drunk! :Q

 

[hans007]

kill him. oh wait i mean, just make her like you more. She'll come around. thats what people say anyways, i'm kinda in a similar thing

 

[urameatball]

tell her about your saga of girl problems... girls like that

 

[mztykal]

Dude, stop going after girls with boyfriends. That's wrong and not cool. How would you feel if you had a girlfriend and some guy did that to you. Just let her do her thing and find a single girl.

 

[slpaulson]

I don't see why some guys want to make girls leave their current boyfriend for you. I mean how do you know she wouldn't do the same thing later to you? Just a thought...

Just be her friend and let things go from there.

 

[hpkeeper]

mztykal, it's not like I go after girls with boyfriends, this happens to be the first... and this has happened to me before.