Angst Inside So my family thinks i'm going to be a failure at life...

Tret

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Can you get judged even though you're 17 and by the things they look at?
 

minendo

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Originally posted by: Tret
Can you get judged even though you're 17 and by the things they look at?
There are no requirements to judge someone.

 

shiner

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Yes....abandon all hope.

McDonald's is probably hiring....if you start now you should be assistant fry cook by the time you are 35.
 

Tret

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Originally posted by: minendo
Originally posted by: Tret
Can you get judged even though you're 17 and by the things they look at?
There are no requirements to judge someone.

But is it ok for them to say that?
 

Lager

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Show them by going to a good university and getting a part time job to support yourself. That'll show 'em.

Do you get good grades in school?
 

Tret

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Originally posted by: lager
Why?

Well like they want me to go work at their stores. and look at my dad's real estate projects. I don't want to
 

PowerMacG5

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Originally posted by: Tret
Originally posted by: minendo
Originally posted by: Tret Can you get judged even though you're 17 and by the things they look at?
There are no requirements to judge someone.
But is it ok for them to say that?

It depends. I know people that I would call failures, although I am a hard judge of character, and if you ruin your image to me, you have to do something amazing to get a good image in my eyes. For your parents, as I said, it depends. If you are a drug addict, who stays out all night, and gets bad grades, I think it's fair for them to say that; however if you are a good student, and can hold responsibilities at home, then I think they are being harsh.
 

Tret

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Originally posted by: KraziKid
Originally posted by: Tret
Originally posted by: minendo
Originally posted by: Tret Can you get judged even though you're 17 and by the things they look at?
There are no requirements to judge someone.
But is it ok for them to say that?

It depends. I know people that I would call failures, although I am a hard judge of character, and if you ruin your image to me, you have to do something amazing to get a good image in my eyes. For your parents, as I said, it depends. If you are a drug addict, who stays out all night, and gets bad grades, I think it's fair for them to say that; however if you are a good student, and can hold responsibilities at home, then I think they are being harsh.

Well I never done any drugs party all night or anything but I did get some bad grades and now improving.
 

Tret

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Originally posted by: Tetsuo
No one can offend you. You choose to be offended by what people say

Well if it's coming from my own family thats pretty fvcked up
 

00Jones

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Originally posted by: Tret
Originally posted by: 00Jones
Originally posted by: Tret
Originally posted by: minendo
Originally posted by: Tret
Can you get judged even though you're 17 and by the things they look at?
There are no requirements to judge someone.

But is it ok for them to say that?

It depends. Are you a lazy bum or do you try hard and work?

I guess i'm a bit lazy

You can show them! Do not fail at being lazy! Be lazy your whole life! Then you won't be a failure!
 

AlienCraft

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Originally posted by: Tret
Can you get judged even though you're 17 and by the things they look at?
Yes and here's the real shocker......
Life is not fair. It's not even fair at THe FAIR!
Don't let their expectations define you.
Do that on your own.
It's your life to do with what you want. That's one reason why the US is still the immigration destination of choice.
Don't look down at your feet, look life square in the eyes. Kick some A$$. Get your a$$ kicked at least once, it shows you've got the stones to get in the ring. Life is for participators, not observers.
The best revenge is living well.

< Uncle Al's speech to nephews over the summer.
 

shiner

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Originally posted by: Tret
Originally posted by: Tetsuo
No one can offend you. You choose to be offended by what people say

Well if it's coming from my own family thats pretty fvcked up
Do you expect them to give you a free pass in life? The world or your family doesn't owe you sh1t. If you are really offended by what they said then prove them wrong. How? Get off your lazy ass and do something about it instead of coming in here and whining like a little bitch.

 

isaacmacdonald

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fashizle that.

one thing to realize when you're young is that the majority of people are stupid. After quickly determining whether or not you are one of the masses, you can generally ascertain how much weight should be given to other peoples opinions versus your own.

the second thing to realize is that a great deal of success has more to do with random distribution than merit. just like bad things happen to good people, mediocrity meets with success.
 

dirtboy

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You should undermine them by becoming a greater failure than they have already imagined you will be.