Oh cool, just what we need another gun thread by the OP. Wondered how long before he'd start this shit again since he's been trying really hard to hide his right wing dipshittery. That normally follows him making an ass out of himself, but seems he's now in the stage of trying to play at being rational before pushing this shit like it'll legitimize it after the multiple other times he just showed exactly who he is (scared man worried about his own masculinity due to listening to Jordan Peterson sermonize).
If a gun calms you its because you're scared, and regardless of it being rational or not (for the most part, modern gun ownership in the US is based on irrational fear), the gun will not be the solution and its calming will just lead you to dependence on it until it provides less and less calming, causing you to seek more and/or bigger guns/more ammo/etc to compensate. The reality is that, even if it is rational fear, the money you spend on guns would be much better spent in some other way (getting you out of the situation; or if its irrational fear, spend it on therapy or education).
No, his friend is being realistic because far right groups are openly talking about harming others (whilst they plot more clandestinely). The friend isn't fetishizing guns, but he is definitely letting the fear of the situation he's in cloud his thinking and he'd be better off moving since he won't know peace there. His fear isn't irrational, but his way of dealing with it is.
Unfortunately for his friend if you want to play in the outdoors that is offered by this country's nature, you're gonna have to put up with these fucking insane asswipes as they've deliberately staked out such areas. There's been a fuss made about people going missing in national parks, only the dumbasses making the fuss are projecting that its Bigfoot or aliens (seriously...), but the reality is its almost certainly these fucking backwoods nutjobs, likely killing/abducting some of those people.
Here's one woman's such ordeal with these types (and while they've been there for decades, their numbers have grown and there's a direct connection between that and the rise of far right ideology in the US; it was literally what led to Ruby Ridge, Waco, and Timothy McVeigh, but is also is behind the Bundy clan and the rise of neo-Nazi groups and even the January 6th insurrection):
Out Of The Woods World-class biathlete Kari Swenson was on an afternoon trail run in the mountains near Big Sky, Montana in July 1984 when two men blocked her path and forever altered the trajectory of her life. More: Bonnie Ford on the legacy of America’s first women’s biathlon team
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Now, contrasting his friend with the OP, the latter is a pathetic chickenshit who needs to stroke a surrogate metal penis to make himself feel less scared (cause Jordan Peterson probably told him fidget spinners will turn him gay or something), likely because he grew up in some rural backwoods where guns were considered "necessary" and so its basically a pacifier for him. The problem is, he's convinced himself of some fear, that he is the source of (if I remember correctly he's talked about some fear of societal upheaval, only, the source of that are jackass men like himself, scared out of their minds about stuff like drag queens, pronouns, and other shit that doesn't have any real actual bearing on their lives and even if it did it wouldn't be something to be scared about, yet they're getting brainwashed to fear this stuff as some existential threat to their masculinity, revealing their fears about their masculinity are coming from letting themselves be duped into fearing and hating minor shit while they bury their heads in the sand about stuff they should be worried about).