am i scary looking, if so what can i do about it?

[hans007]

me


anyways, i've got this problem. i'm a computer science major here at ucla. people especially in engineering seem to be intimidated and/or scared by the way i look on first impression. i mean i'm a really nice guy people tell me after they get to know me. i'm told that on first impression i look like "a thug who'd mug me in an alley." anyways i have no idea why that is, i dont think i'm scary. i'm about 5'11 and a little under 170. i'm not some huge bouncer or anything. i guess i'm wearing somewhat nicer clothes in that picture, since sometimes i just wear baggy jeans , basketball shoes, and maybe a sweatshirt or something. but yeah... i dunno i guess it kinda sucks since people and more importantly girls dont find me as approachable or are scared when i talk to them at first or so i'm told .


so what do you guys think would make me less scary? i guess its better than being cute and cuddly i'm told , but yeah i figure it'd be better if i wasnt associated with 2pac as much

 

[minendo]

I'd hit it.

 

[Yzzim]

I want to kiss your lips

 

[hans007]

Originally posted by: minendo
I'd hit it.

you better not be a guy. then i'd be scary and attractive to men. thats even worse

 

[FrontlineWarrior]

wear pink shirts with rainbows on it.

 

[Aquaman]

Originally posted by: minendo
I'd hit it.

:Q

 

[Aquaman]

Originally posted by: Yzzim
I want to kiss your lips

:Q

 

[Yzzim]

i dunno i guess it kinda sucks since girls dont find me as approachable or so i'm told .

Umm, you are suppose to approach the girls, not the other way around.

 

[Zugzwang152]

chicks dig men who dig men.

 

[iwearnosox]

I'll have a #14 with white rice and a coke.

 

[hans007]

Originally posted by: iwearnosox
I'll have a #14 with white rice and a coke.

does anyone else find this offensive? i do.


yes i am an asian guy named hans btw. thats really me.

 

[acidvoodoo]

wear a red hat

 

[Lore]

IMHO, I say grow the hair out a bit more so it's not shaved like it currently is. Other than that that's all! smile lots too!

 

[screw3d]

No offence, but i'll say you'll pretty mean if you dont smile so just keep on grinning

 

[sk560]

a pair of glasses may help...

 

[hans007]

Originally posted by: sk560
a pair of glasses may help...

i do have glasses, i just wear contacts.


yeah i've gotten the hair thing before i am thinking of growing it out instead of shaving it down to an 1/8 of an inch . damn its so convenient and lazy too that way, you look neat with no effort. oh well, some girls like the thug thats not a thug inside apparently so i guess it kinda works.

 

[wfbberzerker]

iiiiiiiit's satan!

 

Who cares what others think about you?

 

[monk3y]

Originally posted by: minendo
I'd hit it.

LOL!!!

 

[slackerinabox]

To the PRlCK that said that this guy looks like a chinese food store worker - stfu! I mean, if this guy worked at a chinese food place I'd run the hell away! Seriously though, I'm asian myself so that sorta ignorance is retarded and offensive.. to the original poster- try smiling a lot more or go with the look.. Also, lighter colors would help too.. I have the same problem but I just go with it.. who really cares?? But if it bothers you, try to change your clothing and posture.. Smiling a lot helps too but sometimes it could be creepy

 

[murphy55d]

While I don't want to hit it, or kiss your lips Q), I don't find you scary looking.

 

[RudeBoie]

You look fine to me.
Then again, maybe it's because I'm Asian, and I'm used everyone.

All I can say is I guess you should try to smile and joke around a lot. Break the thug image.

 

No, you don't look scary, Hans007. However, something could scare some people in a different sense: Your posture. Looooooord! Please help improve your posture. It's terrible. And it doesn't help that you have a short neck. (Or is it a deformity? ) Other than that, you actually have a cute face.

How tall are you? Oops! I just reread. You're 5' 11". Not bad. Maybe they think that you're too tall for an Asian guy? Do you have a scary voice? I can't guess their minds. LOL!

 

[d33pt]

nah i wasn't scared of you when we met

 

[Kenny]

Originally posted by: Yzzim

i dunno i guess it kinda sucks since girls dont find me as approachable or so i'm told .

Umm, you are suppose to approach the girls, not the other way around.

Agreed.

I used to have that problem. I thought that girls would just eventually approach me if they liked me.