Am I being an unreasonable cheapskate douche?

Page 3 - Seeking answers? Join the AnandTech community: where nearly half-a-million members share solutions and discuss the latest tech.

bsobel

Moderator Emeritus<br>Elite Member
Dec 9, 2001
13,346
0
0
Originally posted by: ivol07
My wife and I are looking for a home. We found one ourselves that we are very interested in through our own searches online and otherwise. So now we want to get a realtor to allow us to walkthrough the house and make an offer. I contacted a realtor that my wife knows. I let her know that I would like her to split her commission with us 20/80 where we get 20%. It's essentially the same deal I would get if I went with a realtor from ziprealty.com. Seems okay to me, seems to me like no one should get offended or hurt by the proposal. It's only business.

But I'm talking to some friends and they are telling me that I'm being a cheapskate by trying to get some of the realtors commission. To me it seems like this is something that they should be dealing with all the time, especially since ziprealty advertises it as a normal feature of their service. They are saying that the realtor won't fight as hard for me to get a good price as if I were to not have mentioned it at all. But to me I see it as something they have to do to win my business, and if they give me bad service I would just drop them. Again, nothing personal, just business.

So am I a cheapskate?

No. It's perfectly normal to negotiate commission especially when you've already chosen the home. However, do it up front, do not try and wait until you are about to close and try to change the deal then.
 

Capt Caveman

Lifer
Jan 30, 2005
34,547
651
126
The folks giving the OP a hard time are funny. If the realtor friend of his wife says no and he can just go to the Ziprealty Real Estate Agent who will give him 20% of their commission no questions asked.
 

tfinch2

Lifer
Feb 3, 2004
22,114
1
0
Originally posted by: JulesMaximus
A buyers agent will spend a lot of time researching properties and driving clients around to see them sometimes the same properties 2 or 3 times. It's a lot of work with the possibility of no payoff in the end. The buyers agent is bringing in the buyer. Without a buyer you have no transaction you jackass.

Are you really a moron IRL, or do you just play one on AT?

The guy has already found the house himself. All the realtor has to do is the paperwork to complete the sale.

 

sjwaste

Diamond Member
Aug 2, 2000
8,760
12
81
Personally, I would bargain for 50% back. You found the home, they're just pushing some papers around to finish it. You did half the work.

Even the buyer's agent is never acting purely in your interest, they take a percentage commission, meaning they want a higher sale price to take home more. Depending on the price, you might be able to get a real estate attorney (especially if you have a friend) to do it flat rate.

Personally, I wouldnt use a realtor if I found the home, ESPECIALLY if it was FSBO. I think their take is far too high for the service rendered if you're willing to do some of the work yourself, but it's not for everyone. It's not so complicated a process that a self-educated person can't do it, it's not like you need a certain degree to be a realtor. You just need a certain # of classroom hours and a license.

And before we get a realtor in this thread yelling at me, let me address that. Some of you are worth your weight in gold, especially to those who deal in investment properties, where you act on our behalf to quickly grab a property at a bargain. To the average homebuyer, though, the commission is high. To those of you that are good at your job and truly negotiate on their behalf for the best possible price (high or low, depending on the party), you're awesome. But there are a lot who arent.
 

CasioTech

Diamond Member
Oct 1, 2000
7,157
9
0
Originally posted by: ivol07
Originally posted by: ViviTheMage
who cares...you are BUYING the seller pays the commission...

An extra $4k in my pocket makes me care.




realtor will lose license if they split commissions or give you cash gifts.

 

thepd7

Diamond Member
Jan 2, 2005
9,429
0
0
Originally posted by: mugs
Originally posted by: JulesMaximus

A buyers agent will spend a lot of time researching properties and driving clients around to see them sometimes the same properties 2 or 3 times. It's a lot of work with the possibility of no payoff in the end. The buyers agent is bringing in the buyer. Without a buyer you have no transaction you jackass.

Sometimes you get lucky and a transaction goes relatively smoothly and other times you really have to work a lot and deal with a ton of sh!t to get a deal to close. There's a big difference between a good real estate agent and a bad one. The good ones are worth the money.

You don't agree with my opinion so you resort to personal attacks? He asked for opinions so I gave mine. Don't like it? Too bad. :|

Did you even read the OP? He already found the house he wants. How much work is his agent going to have to do between now and closing to warrant a $20k commission?



Originally posted by: tfinch2
Originally posted by: JulesMaximus
A buyers agent will spend a lot of time researching properties and driving clients around to see them sometimes the same properties 2 or 3 times. It's a lot of work with the possibility of no payoff in the end. The buyers agent is bringing in the buyer. Without a buyer you have no transaction you jackass.

Are you really a moron IRL, or do you just play one on AT?

The guy has already found the house himself. All the realtor has to do is the paperwork to complete the sale.


I could point out how wrong you are or how you obviously are thinking straight like these fine forum members before but instead I will just stick to personal attacks, jackass.
 

oiprocs

Diamond Member
Jun 20, 2001
3,781
2
0
Yeah, 50-50 FTW. :thumbsup:

Don't lose out on YOUR hard earned money!
 

Capt Caveman

Lifer
Jan 30, 2005
34,547
651
126
Originally posted by: CasioTech
Originally posted by: ivol07
Originally posted by: ViviTheMage
who cares...you are BUYING the seller pays the commission...

An extra $4k in my pocket makes me care.




realtor will lose license if they split commissions or give you cash gifts.

I bought a house using Zipreality.com and was given 20% of the commission back as a rebate check.
 

longhornlump

Member
Jun 26, 2006
146
0
0
Does anyone else have any additional comments about ziprealty.com? Pros/Cons?

Any different from a "typical" real estate agent?
 

mugs

Lifer
Apr 29, 2003
48,924
45
91
Originally posted by: sjwaste

Even the buyer's agent is never acting purely in your interest, they take a percentage commission, meaning they want a higher sale price to take home more. Depending on the price, you might be able to get a real estate attorney (especially if you have a friend) to do it flat rate.

The buyer's agent is absolutely acting in their own interest, but it's in both realtors' best interest to get the deal done faster rather than at a higher price.

And before we get a realtor in this thread yelling at me, let me address that.

It should come as no surprise that JulesMaximus's wife is a realtor. ;)

My mother-in-law is also a realtor, so it should come as no surprise that I don't much care for them.

I kid. ;)
 

sjwaste

Diamond Member
Aug 2, 2000
8,760
12
81
Originally posted by: mugs
Originally posted by: sjwaste

Even the buyer's agent is never acting purely in your interest, they take a percentage commission, meaning they want a higher sale price to take home more. Depending on the price, you might be able to get a real estate attorney (especially if you have a friend) to do it flat rate.

The buyer's agent is absolutely acting in their own interest, but it's in both realtors' best interest to get the deal done faster rather than at a higher price.

And before we get a realtor in this thread yelling at me, let me address that.

It should come as no surprise that JulesMaximus's wife is a realtor. ;)

My mother-in-law is also a realtor, so it should come as no surprise that I don't much care for them.

I kid. ;)

As far as timeliness, sort of. It's sort of a leveraged transaction, neither is working with their own money. They're working with someone else's home equity, so unless their expected rate of return on a typical investment is VERY high, holding out to sell the home for an extra $10k is huge.

The only real incentives to close quickly are to have pleased parties whose business they hope to retain (again, referencing my argument in using a realtor for investment vs home purchase), being able to claim faster turnaround to potential customers (who's going to verify the claims anyway?), and getting it off the books to concentrate on other sales.

I really think that if the OP did the legwork in finding the home, the commission should be cut drastically. If, as JulesMaximus said, the buyer's agent spends a lot of time driving people around, well that's the bulk of the work that the OP already did.

Pushing papers isn't worth 6% of the price. On a $300k home, we're talking an $18k swing.
 

NoShangriLa

Golden Member
Sep 3, 2006
1,652
0
0
Contact the seller agent for a walk through, and use a lawyer to get the paper work done as waggy suggested.

Make sure that you get the best possible deal out of it because you are saving the seller a large amount of money. And, write everything down in the condition (use the paper work from your old home purchase as a guide).

It take bankers/brokers 1-2 week to get the paper work done therefore give yourself an additional week or 2 (total of 2-4 weeks) after closing for possesion.

All conditions must be met before you check it off the list. Inspection, financing approval, may include windows blinds/appliances/furniture (itemize all individually).

That said,

You are maybe a cheapskate, but you are not a douche. Its your money that they want, and they must meet your condition, otherwise take your money somewhere else where it is appreciated





 

richardycc

Diamond Member
Apr 29, 2001
5,719
1
81
Originally posted by: NoShangriLa
Contact the seller agent for a walk through, and use a lawyer to get the paper work done as waggy suggested.

Make sure that you get the best possible deal out of it because you are saving the seller a large amount of money. And, write everything down in the condition (use the paper work from your old home purchase as a guide).

It take bankers/brokers 1-2 week to get the paper work done therefore give yourself an additional week or 2 (total of 2-4 weeks) after closing for possesion.

All conditions must be met before you check it off the list. Inspection, financing approval, may include windows blinds/appliances/furniture (itemize all individually).

That said,

You are maybe a cheapskate, but you are not a douche. Its your money that they want, and they must meet your condition, otherwise take your money somewhere else where it is appreciated

I hate to tell you this, but you are clueless, and probably don't even own a house, why did you even waste your time to give such bad advice?? if the listing agent shown you the house, any offer from you, he/she will get both seller/buyer's agent commissions, eventhou he isn't your buyer's agent. This is true in my state, and I am sure the agents in your state operate the same.

Another thing, if you dont have a license, you are just not legally entitle to any money from a real estate transaction, period.
 

NoShangriLa

Golden Member
Sep 3, 2006
1,652
0
0
Originally posted by: richardycc
Originally posted by: NoShangriLa
Contact the seller agent for a walk through, and use a lawyer to get the paper work done as waggy suggested.

Make sure that you get the best possible deal out of it because you are saving the seller a large amount of money. And, write everything down in the condition (use the paper work from your old home purchase as a guide).

It take bankers/brokers 1-2 week to get the paper work done therefore give yourself an additional week or 2 (total of 2-4 weeks) after closing for possesion.

All conditions must be met before you check it off the list. Inspection, financing approval, may include windows blinds/appliances/furniture (itemize all individually).

That said,

You are maybe a cheapskate, but you are not a douche. Its your money that they want, and they must meet your condition, otherwise take your money somewhere else where it is appreciated

I hate to tell you this, but you are clueless, and probably don't even own a house, why did you even waste your time to give such bad advice?? if the listing agent shown you the house, any offer from you, he/she will get both seller/buyer's agent commissions, eventhou he isn't your buyer's agent. This is true in my state, and I am sure the agents in your state operate the same.

Another thing, if you dont have a license, you are just not legally entitle to any money from a real estate transaction, period.
Took possession of my house this last x-mass, and possession was 3 weeks after viewed/offer.

The law here may different from where you are.

In Victoria BC, Canada we do not need a real-estate agent to sell or purchase a home, however the Real-estate Cartel MLS.CA will only list a home that represent by license agents.

To protect their job, realtors tend to boycott For Sale By Owner & 1% Realty by not showing the house to there buying clients. Leaving their client to do their own research if they want to view houses that isn?t on the Multiple Listing Service.

It often require an agent to view a listed house, because agent claim that they only want to show the house to serious purchaser. However, selling agent may show the house to a potential buyer with out a representative agent because they want to accelerate the selling process.

Buyer that doesn?t have a representative agent may also view houses that have Open House, and make an offer with out an agent.

[add] Double agent is relatively common here too, but it is my right to allow the agent to represent or not represent me.

I'm not entitle to money from a seller or their agent, however it doesn't hurt me to state that the seller is getting a saving, because the seller agent do not have to share the commission with a buyer agent. Therefore I will make a lower offer and let the seller and their agent work out the details.

Home for sale - fsbo mess

When you bought your house, was the purchase price higher or lower than the appraisal value?

So I bought a house...

<-- 6 months research, viewed almost 100 houses, and jumped on a house when saw a good deal.