One of my best (girl) friends is dating a stuck up jerk that almost everyone in the grade seems to hate. When asked "if you could live without another person, who would it be?" 8 out of 10 people said it was this guy right here. But somehow my moralful honors student friend seems to love this stuck up dumass loser that to raises himself by belittling others. She says that he's a real sensitive and caring person deep down inside and that she found this out when she read his memoir where he writes about how him not having much confidence as a child is the sole reason for his asshole qualities now. Why do girls have to find the guys that are assholes on the outside and supposedly are sensitive deep deep under 25,000 tons of concrete and sand? If you want someone sensitive and caring, why not just find someone who's that way through and through? I thought i understood people but i'm just getting more and more confused. Anyone else see the same trend?