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All you guys think about is sex sex sex...
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Demon-Xanth
Lifer
What are you sexing about? We thing about things other than sex. Like god, and if he's ever had sex.
J Heartless Slick
Golden Member
Is this a parody thread?
moshquerade
No Lifer
no one can think about sex 24/7. they have to think about food at some point 😛
SagaLore
Elite Member
No, it's
1. Self gratification (orgasm = brain releasing reward chemicals)
2. Giving gratification (partner's orgasm = ensuring relationship bonds)
Deep down nobody really care's about reproduction. If that was what it was about, our genetics wouldn't need to trick our bodies into perceiving it as something pleasurable.
Demon-Xanth
Lifer
It's alot like this:
http://www.penny-arcade.com/view.php3?date=2000-09-22&res=l
http://www.penny-arcade.com/view.php3?date=2000-09-22&res=l
bandana163
Diamond Member
3/10.
Demon-Xanth
Lifer
Sex is like air.
It's not a big deal unless you're not getting any.
It's not a big deal unless you're not getting any.
alkemyst
No Lifer
I think those that make the biggest deals about it aren't getting much and those that aren't getting much are either doing so by choice or simply not putting themselves out there as available.
Whether I am in shape, out of shape, broke or the cash is flowing in...I can find someone willing to go to bed that is attractive, sexy and has potential to be more than a ONS. Chances are if I was looking for a more than one night/weekend fling I wouldn't be trying as hard to bed my catch of the night...then again having sex on the first night is more or less hit or miss once you are older than a younger 20 something. Once you are past that age or experienced more sex is just part of the whole dating scene whether it's intercourse or something else.
If you date enough you will find you are always 'the only guy/girl they have ever done this with/gone this fast with/etc' 😉 If sex wasn't one of those things goody two shoes judged people on relationships would be a lot more honest. I think it's many guys / girls fears to find out that the person they love was not 'just with about 5' others.
One of the worst examples was a guy one of the girls I would hang out with at a bar told me about. I am always a talker and he was upset, crying at one of the corners of the bar, but didn't want to talk about it with any of the girls...I found he was an older, established guy and we would continue to talk to a few times (over about a month maybe two) at a bar...he was 40ish who married his wife in college when they both went there late in life (I think she was late 20's he was in early 30's...they were married about 5 years (I think) at the time I talked to him and he said he thought she was much younger than she was when they met, apparently in a team project).
She was everything he thought was impossible to find. Beautiful, athletic, she went to church regularly, volunteered, etc....like super woman. He also talked about mother material.
Apparently his model-like, church-going, super volunteering wife was a professional escort and prostitute for the wealthy at the end and the not so wealthy in the beginning from about 17 for several (I thought 10) years. She originally told this guy that she was with only a couple long term boyfriends and was concentrating on working enough to afford college and get out of debt (probably drug debts, we didn't talk about the debt part). He wishes he didn't get the answers to the next questions and just accepted that she was with 'a lot of guys'...he was thinking that meant 10-15 or something....a few flings, and he was thinking these guys just took advantage of her, he couldn't deal with wondering so one night he 'questioned' her about it all. He admitted she fought discussing it and agreed that it didn't help anything. This is almost always the case, the other person wants to hear: The sex was terrible, I was forced, I hated every person before you, etc....however, the truth is always: yeah the sex was a blast some nights; he/she didn't want to, but I talked them into it; I used to love them a lot...wanted to marry them, but they changed....
She had a lot of steady clients, but for a while she was going on 'dates' about 3-4 times a week or more in the beginning. He was estimately 1000's of guys and girls she was with many she didn't know (groups). She was STD free as far as anything current, but also had admited to having some (I don't know which, but perhaps all of the social/casual sex ones)....
However, that was 10 years ago and more at this time we talked and the reason it all came out now was that she was currently pregnant (yes his baby) and why she decided to tell him 'her real story', she apparently hated the lie since day one, but that life was totally behind her. She had said other b/f's she tried to have would end up just using her once they found out and try to get all the 'taboos' from her than other women wouldn't do (I am sure this part was one of the more graphic ones he wanted to forget/not think about). She just didn't want to live this life anymore.
I have no idea what became of them, but I do know he became more accepting of it although it would get him all broken up on certain topics.
I only thing I could think of is everything they had going seemed perfect except that one (large) incident in the past that for probably 10 years was never even an issue and she was still exactly the same person.
Now past-religion, politics, etc cannot shake up any two people in love more than this. So I would say it's a pretty strong topic with anyone.
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Whether I am in shape, out of shape, broke or the cash is flowing in...I can find someone willing to go to bed that is attractive, sexy and has potential to be more than a ONS. Chances are if I was looking for a more than one night/weekend fling I wouldn't be trying as hard to bed my catch of the night...then again having sex on the first night is more or less hit or miss once you are older than a younger 20 something. Once you are past that age or experienced more sex is just part of the whole dating scene whether it's intercourse or something else.
If you date enough you will find you are always 'the only guy/girl they have ever done this with/gone this fast with/etc' 😉 If sex wasn't one of those things goody two shoes judged people on relationships would be a lot more honest. I think it's many guys / girls fears to find out that the person they love was not 'just with about 5' others.
One of the worst examples was a guy one of the girls I would hang out with at a bar told me about. I am always a talker and he was upset, crying at one of the corners of the bar, but didn't want to talk about it with any of the girls...I found he was an older, established guy and we would continue to talk to a few times (over about a month maybe two) at a bar...he was 40ish who married his wife in college when they both went there late in life (I think she was late 20's he was in early 30's...they were married about 5 years (I think) at the time I talked to him and he said he thought she was much younger than she was when they met, apparently in a team project).
She was everything he thought was impossible to find. Beautiful, athletic, she went to church regularly, volunteered, etc....like super woman. He also talked about mother material.
Apparently his model-like, church-going, super volunteering wife was a professional escort and prostitute for the wealthy at the end and the not so wealthy in the beginning from about 17 for several (I thought 10) years. She originally told this guy that she was with only a couple long term boyfriends and was concentrating on working enough to afford college and get out of debt (probably drug debts, we didn't talk about the debt part). He wishes he didn't get the answers to the next questions and just accepted that she was with 'a lot of guys'...he was thinking that meant 10-15 or something....a few flings, and he was thinking these guys just took advantage of her, he couldn't deal with wondering so one night he 'questioned' her about it all. He admitted she fought discussing it and agreed that it didn't help anything. This is almost always the case, the other person wants to hear: The sex was terrible, I was forced, I hated every person before you, etc....however, the truth is always: yeah the sex was a blast some nights; he/she didn't want to, but I talked them into it; I used to love them a lot...wanted to marry them, but they changed....
She had a lot of steady clients, but for a while she was going on 'dates' about 3-4 times a week or more in the beginning. He was estimately 1000's of guys and girls she was with many she didn't know (groups). She was STD free as far as anything current, but also had admited to having some (I don't know which, but perhaps all of the social/casual sex ones)....
However, that was 10 years ago and more at this time we talked and the reason it all came out now was that she was currently pregnant (yes his baby) and why she decided to tell him 'her real story', she apparently hated the lie since day one, but that life was totally behind her. She had said other b/f's she tried to have would end up just using her once they found out and try to get all the 'taboos' from her than other women wouldn't do (I am sure this part was one of the more graphic ones he wanted to forget/not think about). She just didn't want to live this life anymore.
I have no idea what became of them, but I do know he became more accepting of it although it would get him all broken up on certain topics.
I only thing I could think of is everything they had going seemed perfect except that one (large) incident in the past that for probably 10 years was never even an issue and she was still exactly the same person.
Now past-religion, politics, etc cannot shake up any two people in love more than this. So I would say it's a pretty strong topic with anyone.
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