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Advice on post breakup boredom

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Bumrush99

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Okay the finality of my relationship that took place over the past few years has finally kicked in. I don't miss my ex nor do I want anything to do with her. However, boredom has kicked in due to the lack of the pathetic routine we had going

I have tried :

Going to clubs and bars with my male friends: Bored as hell, I'm starting to feel like the "old man at the club" surrounded by a bunch of little 21 year olds that are all intoxicated

Going to clubs and bars with my female friends: To much estrogen, not easy to get away from if I spot someone interesting.

Staying in surfing the internet, reading, watching TV: I'm starting to dread weekdays. On a positive note at least I get to bed a lot earlier.

Internet Chatrooms: I get bored within 5 minutes, mostly a bunch of juvenile deliquents and whacked out females.

So it looks like at 29 I am finally ready to settle down with the right person, but it seems like my options are pretty limited 🙁 Oh well, a trip to Vegas will probably throw everything out of whack, but travelling may be my only way out of this stretch!

 
Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
You need sex. Who cares if it comes from the "little 21 year old" - matter of fact, that'll do you some good.

Go get laid! 😀

- M4H
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Ever watch Saving Private Ryan? Remember how you felt shellshocked after the Battle of Normady??? I lived that for the past 6 months, so I guess I'm a bit jaded... Never, in my wildest dreams did I anticipate going down that road with someone else. I used to mock my friends for getting with the wrong person, and I wound up on the same boat 😀
 
Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
You need sex. Who cares if it comes from the "little 21 year old" - matter of fact, that'll do you some good.

Go get laid! 😀

- M4H
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:thumbsup:

Rich guys that are in their 50's are banging 21 year olds, so why can't you? Just have fun while you still can and that right girl will show up unexpectedly.
 
Originally posted by: marleymarl
if you get bored with your right hand, make your left hand fall asleep and use that...they call it "the stranger"
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I tried that once already but my left hand started punching my face in a fit of jealousy
 
Bumrush99- I feel your pain. My wife and I are getting divorced (we still get along, but the feeling isn't there). We are technically still married, but we stay in seperate rooms, andhe divorce won't be finalized for at least 3 months.SinceI am still maried, I feel guilty even looking at other women. So be glad that you can get that "rebound lovin'" right away without any negative feelins🙂
 
Get a hobby..something that interests you and devote your spare time to it.

For example I like modifyin cars, home audio/video, overclocking computers...etc etc

if all else fails..video games
1) half life 2
2) half life 2 deathmatch
3) counterstrike: source
4) world of warcraft
5) halo 2
6) metal gear solid 3
 
that's what dating services are for.

And during the time you're not dating, go play some sports (local leagues). Once or twice a week does wonders to break a humdrum nightly routine.
 

Originally posted by: pio!pio!

if all else fails..video games
1) half life 2
2) half life 2 deathmatch
3) counterstrike: source

I think that is part of the problem. Luckily my cable provider has been having serious issues during peak hours and my ping doesn't stabilize itself until way after midnight
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So now that you're bored and probably also boring, you think you're ready to settle down with "the right girl"

lol, what makes you think a new woman wants to be with somebody who's devoid of enliving his existance ?

Just go thru your day,use your time to take a trip, sign up for a course that interests you,learn to speak another language, volunteer to help out a charity or two. Soon your life will be full and you'll have something to offer to a new person.
 
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