Advice on asking a girl out.

[Promethply]

Don't think too much about the "what ifs", just try to be nice and nonchalant when you do ask her out.

 

[AnyMal]

Originally posted by: Jnetty99

Originally posted by: AnyMal

Originally posted by: Jnetty99

Originally posted by: Chode Messiah
step 1: get her name.

I know her name already.

step 2: start a conversation

I did we talked briefly after the game...

Hopefully this upcoming tuesday i will see what happens, if she shows up.

Then you're ready for Step 3:

Circle the appropriate option:

"Hey I was wondering if you're free this Friday/Saturday/Sunday night/evening/afternoon/morning? Maybe we could get some coffee/see a movie/go for a walk/run/crawl/shopping/dancing/buttseks/museum/theatre/pr0n/glassblowing/macra
e workshop/fishing/panhandling. I think we'll have great time"

 

[Mayfriday0529]

Originally posted by: AnyMal

Originally posted by: Jnetty99

Originally posted by: AnyMal

Originally posted by: Jnetty99

Originally posted by: Chode Messiah
step 1: get her name.

I know her name already.

step 2: start a conversation

I did we talked briefly after the game...

Hopefully this upcoming tuesday i will see what happens, if she shows up.

Then you're ready for Step 3:

Circle the appropriate option:

"Hey I was wondering if you're free this Friday/Saturday/Sunday night/evening/afternoon/morning? Maybe we could get some coffee/see a movie/go for a walk/run/crawl/shopping/dancing/buttseks/museum/theatre/pr0n/glassblowing/macra
e workshop/fishing/panhandling. I think we'll have great time"

I like your options good stuff, thanks...

i'll let you all know what happens.

 

[swinger222]

Treat her as a human being - as opposed to someone you're trying to pick up. You can just say, 'I'm not trying to hit on you, but you've got a beautiful smile.' And if that's the end of the conversation, let it be the end of the conversation. Be respectful and don't force it. Everyone appreciates being told something nice, no strings attached. Be earnest, give a real compliment, and maintain eye contact when you're talking. She may be wearing a low-cut top but make sure to talk to her?and not to them .

 

[Mayfriday0529]

She said no... that is all.

 

[Triforceofcourage]

Originally posted by: Jnetty99
She said no... that is all.

pwned

 

[youppi]

did she give a reason?

 

[SilentZero]

Originally posted by: chuckywang
From the infinite wisdom of Ali G: Treat her rough, you get your muff.

LMAO!!! Ali G is the one stop shop for solutions to problems such as this.

 

[KarenMarie]

be confident but not cocky. make it as informal as possible. a get together as opposed to a date.

 

[Safeway]

Aww, just no? That's harsh ... does she have a boyfriend?

 

[Corn]

Originally posted by: swinger222
Treat her as a human being - as opposed to someone you're trying to pick up. You can just say, 'I'm not trying to hit on you, but you've got a beautiful smile.' And if that's the end of the conversation, let it be the end of the conversation. Be respectful and don't force it. Everyone appreciates being told something nice, no strings attached. Be earnest, give a real compliment, and maintain eye contact when you're talking. She may be wearing a low-cut top but make sure to talk to her?and not to them .

Now THAT's loser talk.


Dude, just tell her you've got an overclocked Prescott and you asked ATOT for advice on how to ask her out--for sure you'll get a sympathy date.........that's your only chance: No matter what we tell you to say, you'll screw it up and blow any chance you think you might have had anyway.

Tell us how you do.

 

[Ricochet]

Originally posted by: Jnetty99
She said no... that is all.

Not surprising. At her age (probably 16 compared to your manly 14) she'll only date older guys.

 

[DeadByDawn]

rejection is tough. I say find out if she any siblings, and bang them.

 

[Corn]

Originally posted by: Jnetty99
She said no... that is all.

Sorry, shoulda read the whole thread prior to my reply.

 

[RaistlinZ]

Originally posted by: Jnetty99
She said no... that is all.

Wow! She sat your a$$ down like Mike Tyson in the 6th. Tough break man.

 

[Corn]

Originally posted by: DeadByDawn
rejection is tough. I say find out if she any siblings, and bang them.

Hmmmm, it appears that ATOT is not completely without good advice. *ding*

 

[Mayfriday0529]

Originally posted by: ricochet

Originally posted by: Jnetty99
She said no... that is all.

Not surprising. At her age (probably 16 compared to your manly 14) she'll only date older guys.

actually its her 27 and me 25.

 

[Byte]

never ask a girl out. what you do is make her ask you out. if you think i'm nuts, then i feel sorry for you. shoot me a PM

 

[GoingUp]

how long is your season? what sport are you playing? i say try to get to know her a little bit better

 

[Mayfriday0529]

Originally posted by: Gobadgrs
how long is your season? what sport are you playing? i say try to get to know her a little bit better

Season is over in July, i'm playing Beach Volleyball and she said no and then used the "friends" word ok.

Its pretty much over right there.

Thank all of you for you advice, but must go since must get up at 6am to go to the gym.