Advice on "afterplay"

[CattyKathy]

I need some advice here, I was looking at one of the threads called Foreplay and Dannyloveand I were talking about it, and we both agreed that everytime after the "session" was over, when one of the person gets up, such as, going to work, getting dress, bathroom, etc etc... and somehow there's always this bad feeling, guilt, awkwardness, or just something like that.

I dunno how to describe it...even when the couple are together or married. I just kinda wanna see what some of you guys think or feel or can actually give some advise on getting rid of the awkwardness thing.

Heehee

~Purr~

 

[Yo Ma Ma]

Watch a movie or go to sleep. Or you could try redirection, "What's that over in the corner, a spider?!" then get dressed when they are not looking.

 

[GL]

Me and my ex always got hungry afterwards hahah...we'd go get a bite to eat.

-GL

 

[prodigy]

is this about a study session?

 

[Farbio]

lol yomama

i usually just end up collapsing w/ her for at least a lil bit and we just lay together for awhile, as long as some intimacy is maintained for a bit, it seems just fine. there are those times when 'wham bam, thank you ma'am' is great though and i do really love those

 

[JimmyEatWorld]

almost walk out the door, then look back, open you eyes wide and smile....then glide back to the bed...lean over and brush their hair back. Give them a long sweet kiss and say "I shall see you later, ok" and while you say this, be forehead to forehead. That should do it.

 

[BrunoPuntzJones]

did it with my exgf once and afterwards i went home to play in an ultima online (computer game) tournament she didn't mind either

 

[ECN]

more foreplay ;p

 

[CattyKathy]

<< almost walk out the door, then look back, open you eyes wide and smile....then glide back to the bed...lean over and brush their hair back. Give them a long sweet kiss and say &quot;I shall see you later, ok&quot; and while you say this, be forehead to forehead. That should do it. >>



Awww, that's so cute

 

[thedarkwolf]

I just give the lady a $50 and they leave. No awkward moments for me .

 

[datalink7]

<< I just give the lady a $50 and they leave. No awkward moments for me . >>


except when you go to the doctor and start having to explain where you got &quot;that rash&quot;

 

[DannyLove]

ummm, well let me try to extend what kat was trying to say. Have you ever had that strange feeling, where once everything is &quot;done&quot; and someone is getting up to leave, whether its the guy or girl and you just see the person getting up and leaving, have you ever felt some strange feeling, like you did something wrong. I guess I'm focusing more on non-married couples, since Im not married and I wouldnt know, but does anyone know what i'm talking about or what kat is?

I think its just us kat. Like, for example, my past gf's, after the session, I start getting up and start changing. During that whole time I feel......strange. why? was it because I felt guilty that I had umm sex? or is it that some arent comfortable naked? I dunno,

danny~!

 

[Viper GTS]

Let me get laid first, then I'll get back to you.

But my thought is simply fall asleep with them.



Viper GTS

 

[CattyKathy]

<< Have you ever had that strange feeling, where once everything is &quot;done&quot; and someone is getting up to leave, whether its the guy or girl and you just see the person getting up and leaving, have you ever felt some strange feeling, like you did something wrong. >>



That's totally what I meant, thank you Danny

 

[Namuna]

Hey, I don't know about anybody else but I take pride in my work. Let's just see her TRY and walk off with the 'jelly' legs after the workout with me!

I'm very conscious of the 'afterplay'. It's 'snuggle' time for awhile afterwards (for her and MY benefit), if I need to get up (usually for something to drink from getting dehydrated) I always make sure to ask &quot;I'm going to get something to drink, can I get you anything?&quot;

It's all about being aware that immediately 'after' is or can be an awkward or very vulnerable time. People need to consider other peoples feelings.

 

[hzl eyed grl]

Viper - lol That's my problem too. Heehee

So, how do you guys know each other? (Danny &amp; cattykathy) You guys 'together' or just friends?

 

[tkim]

grab each others arses and fall asleep together!

 

[DannyLove]

<< Viper - lol That's my problem too. Heehee

So, how do you guys know each other? (Danny &amp; cattykathy) You guys 'together' or just friends? >>

we go to the same school and I've known her for a while now. we're um.......friends..........for now i guess only time can tell us.

danny~!

 

[DannyLove]

i think everyone is messing the point here. oh well, ill drop it.

danny~!

 

[hzl eyed grl]

What point? The point of the thread? I think people get the point, Danny. I would give you a personal opinion, but I can't. I have yet to sleep with anyone.

 

[troglodytis]

i get something like that from time to time. it only happens when she gets up too quickly and i don't get my snuggling time in. it's like a black ball of emptyness or gravity deep in my stomach.

snuggling, cuddling, and pleasant pillow talk and wonderfull preventions.

that's one of my complaints about morning sex. don't get me wrong i LOVE morning sex, but there's never enough time. whatever happened to those days where morning sex turned into night sex? those are nice days

 

[CattyKathy]

<<

<< Viper - lol That's my problem too. Heehee

So, how do you guys know each other? (Danny &amp; cattykathy) You guys 'together' or just friends? >>

we go to the same school and I've known her for a while now. we're um.......friends..........for now i guess only time can tell us.

danny~! >>



Yea, we're, ahem, um...friends, we'll see
Time will tell....

Yea, I dont think anyone got it either....

 

[DannyLove]

its okay, lets just drop the subject. people are answering a bit differently.

danny~!

 

[Viper GTS]

Interpretation of above posts:

They're screwing like rabbits.

:Q

Viper GTS

 

[hzl eyed grl]

<< Interpretation of above posts:

They're screwing like rabbits.

:Q

Viper GTS >>


LOL Hmmmm.... You think? At least I'm not the only one that thought that. Heehee