** Adul's story on how it all happened Day 2 of 2! **

Adul

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ahem here is Day 1



I mentioned that in day 1, we pretty much crashed into bed after our long day of activities. Well we where suppose to be heading over to my uncles house just north of Bangkok in the morning. My girlfriend wanted to leave early so she set the alarm for 3 AM. We crashed into bed around 11 PM. So 5 hours sleep is not to bad. Anyways, we go to sleep to be rudely awakened by the alarm clock at 1 AM. I didn?t look at time the first time I hit snooze. Well alarm went off again and I looked at clock, just past 1 am. Arrgghhh!! Wtf!? The alarm was 2 hours early and I felt like crap from only 2 hours sleep. So we set it for 4 am this time and head back to sleep. Buzz buzz buzz! DOH! Not again, stupid alarm now goes off at 3 am. Go figure, well we are kind of awake now so we decide to just get up and go shower and change.

After we get ready we have my cousin take us to the bus station. Since we could not find a taxi running at 4 am in the morning. We catch the bus to near my uncles house and take a taxi to get there. We arrive about 5:30 am and ring the doorbell. Fortunately my aunt is awake getting ready for work. We go inside and crash again for some more sleep. Wake up about 8 am and go bother my other cousin there. I meet some of his friends and his girlfriend. She will take the three of us to the consular office in Bangkok and she will head of to her office. So we leave around 9 or so and get dropped off. My cousin will stick around with us while to help out if needed. Well we go inside the consular office and head to the 3rd floor. Turns out I need a copy of my passport so I run downstairs and make a copy. Go back upstairs and show them it. Now I can draw a number for which we wait about 10 minutes for our number to be called. Before I got called I off course had some more paper work to fill out.

My numbered is called and I head to the window with my cousin, while my girlfriend stays seated. My cousin who is fluent in Thai and English speaks with them
Apparently it takes two business days to paper work processed. The problem is that the office will close the day after that day for the long holiday. So my cousin explains to them I am leaving on the first. They ask to see my plane ticket with I happen to have on me thank god. So they have me go make a copy of my plane ticket to give to them. I return with the copy and they said it would take a good 2 hours to complete. Cool I think so now we need to kill 2 hours. So we head outside and catch a taxi to a nearby mall for some shopping. Well apparently this mall was once a big time shopping place is now nothing more then a few stores left. This was off course to my cousin?s surprise to what ahs happen to this mall. But then again last time he was there was 6 years ago before he went to the US. So anyways we leave that mall and kind of walk down the street and decide to catch a bus to anywhere. Hell we did not know where it went or where we wanted to get off. But we got on and head down the street a bit and ended up getting off at a lotus super center. This place is like a super Wal-Mart. So that is where my girlfriend and I do some shopping. We ended up spending a little less then $50 bucks. Pretty good considering we had got each 2 shirts, pants, underwear and belt for me, and a bra and panties for her, plus a 6 pack of energizer batteries.

Well with shopping now completed and the 2 hour time limit is now almost over we catch yet another taxi outside the lotus center and head back to the consular office. We head to the third floor and low and behold our documents are done! YEAH! So we now have on last stop left to go, the Lumphar?s office for the marriage license.

We get there and talk to lady who informs us we need to get one more witness for the signing of the marriage license. DOH! I didn?t think about that, so we get my cousin?s girlfriend to show up and proceed with the paper work. I present my affidavit, the translated version, and the ok from the consular office, and off course more fees. It seemed like I had to do all the paper work. Well after about 2 hours off filling out papers for the both of us, and answering questions we finally receive our marriage license! Yeah!!

Does happy dance

We are finally pronounced man and wife. We later go out that night together to celebrate, which is part of the reason why we went shopping for clothing. And off course we stayed the night in the hotel to celebrate ;)

Needless to say I did not sleep much that night, but what sleep we did get was great.

through out all this I manage to take
7 taxis
4 buses
1 electric train
3 motor cycle trips
and down a couple of alcohalic beverages when it was all said and done with. :)

Damn I miss my wife. It will be 6+ months before I get to see her again. INS process is slow.
 

Regine

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Well, I'm glad that everything turned out alright, and again, congratulations :D
Hope everything goes well with INS.
 

Adul

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It wasn't extremely romantic, it was a lot of work to do. But it is something we wanted to do before our wedding date later on this year. I promise to make this up for sure. I am planning on doing a cruise for honeymoon. An alaskan cruise sounds like fun to me.
 

Imaginer

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Amount of money cabbie makes = $40
Amount of money super store makes = $50
Amount of money the office workers made = $god who knows what

Happy dance of Adul = Priceless.
 

Adul

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Oh to answer some questions

  • I am 24 years old she is 27 years old. :)
  • We plan on two weddings, one in US and one in Thailand.
  • They will be thai styled weddings
  • Now solid date yet for both weddings. It depends on the INS.
  • Yes I am a very happy man :D
 

Soybomb

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Hehe sounds hectic! Isn't sleep after sex always great too? ;) I feel for you, 6 months without seeing her must be tough, still congrats on getting it done though :)
 

Yeeny

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Crimson: Romance is not always candlelight and roses. Sometimes just being with the one you love is more than enough. :)

Congrats Adul, you busy boy you! :D
 

yakko

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<< plus a 6 pack of energizer batteries. >>


Is there something you're not telling us?;):)
 

BiggieN

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i assume we're all invited to the US wedding? i hope thai weddings are as fun as chinese weddings. we get to play pranks on the bride and groom all nite through the dinner at chinese weddings ;)
 

Adul

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Umm I have no real clue has to what you guys could do :Q Time to find out soon.

The batteries where for her CD portable player.
 

fallenoncrack

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*ahem*



<< Pretty good considering we had got each 2 shirts, pants, underwear and belt for me, and a bra and panties for her, plus a 6 pack of energizer batteries. >>



Good thing you told us that the panties and bra were for your wife....hehehehe I thought for a minute it was for YOU. lol

I don't buy it for one minute about the batteries being used for a CD player, Fess up buddy! Come on....

:p
 

Aquaman

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Once again........ congrats Adul :D

Don't worry....... those 6 months will fly by real fast :D

Cheers,
Aquaman
 

Mday

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<< Don't worry....... those 6 months will fly by real fast >>



and the rest of your life will be an eternity ;-)
 

Antisocial Virge

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So your officially married now?. I thought the INS would allow you to bring your wife with you over here while you waited for the forms to be processed. They don't like doing it but they will :)
 

PCAddict

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You have six months of freedom left. After that, you will beaten down into submission and your life will cease to be your own. Enjoy it while it lasts. ;)

Eddie, what have you done for me lately? - RAW
 
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From INS

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Background
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Adul

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Thanks for the INfo Mrs Antisocial virge :) I appreciate it. Looks like I got a lot of paper work to go fill out. I am waiting on the translation of our marriage license. I should have done that there, but I forgot.
 

Nutcase99

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Congrats again!

Next time just rent a car :D

Well hopefully there won't be a next time you can just have her fly over here and get married! BTW Who's invited? ;)