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IMHO, the problem here is that many people make judgements about abortion that they don't about other elective procedures, often ones that are not in the best interest of the child. If your daughter is 15 years old, having a kid could quite possibly wreck the rest of her life. But there are still parents who would forbid her from having an abortion, not because they think it's best for her, but because of their beliefs about abortion. They will be hurting their child by sticking by their beliefs.
Obviously the solution is for teenagers to engage in safe sex (or none at all), but many teenagers aren't smart enough to do that, and everyone makes plenty of mistakes as a teenager. I know I did, I'm sure most of you did as well. But parents are willing to sacrafice their kids for this particular mistake, even though there is a solution, simply because they don't agree with the (legal) solution.
I agree, parents should have to approve elective procedures for their kids, EXCEPT when having those elective procedures would be in the child's best interest and the parents still forbid it. Parents who aren't working in their child's best interests should not be given decision making authority. There is lots of case law to back this concept up, a parent does not have unlimited power over their child when they aren't acting in the kid's best interests.
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They will be hurting the child by sticking by their beliefs???? That is an incredible statement!
First of all, the child should have never gotten pregnant in the first place. Whatever happened to self-responsibility? I guess it's a good lesson to teach children that any mistake can be erased (including a pregnancy), so go ahead and have sex and don't worry about it. You can always abort! Equating "making mistakes while you're a teenager" with getting pregnant is off the chart ridiculous. Getting caught smoking is a teenage mistake. Getting pregnant is not the same.
Second, you're actually criticizing people for sticking by their beliefs, which I'm sure you would be severely offended by if anyone turned that around on you.
Finally, I guess you're insinuating that hurting the grandchild (or aborted child) is much more acceptable than harming the child (the mother). Or are we assuming an unborn child isn't living? Better to sacrifice your grandchild than child, I guess.
But I guess the most disturbing thing about this line of thought is that you are saying that the STATE (i.e. the courts) somehow has a much better grasp about what is good for your kids than the parents do. That, if nothing else, is more Orwellian than anything I've heard in a long time. This is why democrats keep losing elections.