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A storm is brewing in paradise

PingSpike

PingSpike

Lifer
Right, so as my impending marriage draws nearer and nearer it occurs to me that there will be a bachelor party in my honor. And given the caliber of gentleman that my friends are cut from, I suspect strippers will be part of the intended format.

I've had half assed arguements with the woman about this before. She is pretty adamant about me not having strippers. I, on the other hand...wouldn't really mind a stripper or two showing up at this event. Isn't it tradition? Sure its a stupid tradition, but so is everything else involving marriage.

Her main concern is that I will cheat on her with the stripper or something, and a recent "Cosmo" article has fanned the flames on this considerably by giving credence to her worst fears with some sort of stupid expose on two sex crazed strippers. (God damn Cosmo) Now, I know that even while drunk my decision making system remains intact, just slightly slowed, so that this will not happen. (Not to mention I find the idea that a stripper would have some unstoppable desire to fvck me seems dubious at best.) But she still has concerns. And I can understand her position. But at the same time, I kind of like the idea just having one last moronic romp with the guys before I say farewell to those times forever.

Ultimately, I guess its not that big of a deal to me. And I'm just going to let her win. This seems like one of those battles that just isn't worth winning because she seems to have dug her heels in pretty good.
 
I would suggest letting it go. I mean, you can still have your friends over, have a few beers, and fvck around anyway, right?

Second, and more importantly, she's going to find out very soon that this happened, and you're going to be dealing with her bitching at your honeymoon. Let it go, man.


Sneak away to a club in a few weeks.
 
Originally posted by: Chraticn
I would suggest letting it go. I mean, you can still have your friends over, have a few beers, and fvck around anyway, right?

Second, and more importantly, she's going to find out very soon that this happened, and you're going to be dealing with her bitching at your honeymoon. Let it go, man.


Sneak away to a club in a few weeks.
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haha agreed
 
"Her main concern is that I will cheat on her with the stripper or something, and a recent "Cosmo" article has fanned the flames on this considerably by giving credence to her worst fears with some sort of stupid expose on two sex crazed strippers."

She looses trust in you because of an article in Cosmo. I think a bachelor party is the least of your concerns as a couple.
 
Originally posted by: Citrix
dont get married, she doesnt trust you with this, whats next?
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Yeah, what happens when she reads in Cosmo that the average woman has 2 orgasms during sex and you're not satisfying her enough or that Cosmo says that men that watch sports cheat on their wives 20% more than those that don't.
 
Originally posted by: isasir
Originally posted by: Citrix
dont get married, she doesnt trust you with this, whats next?
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Yeah, what happens when she reads in Cosmo that the average woman has 2 orgasms during sex and you're not satisfying her enough or that Cosmo says that men that watch sports cheat on their wives 20% more than those that don't.
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She canceled her subscription to cosmo a few months ago. I don't think she really took that article to seriously, or any of those articles really.
 
Oh, and one more thing:

Never, and I mean NEVER accept an ultimatum from a woman.

That single bit of wisdom was the most important my father passed on to me.

The worst thing you can ever do for yourself is become a doormat to some woman.
 
I wouldn't want strippers anyway. I think it goes against the intent of marriage, and respect for your fiance. that said, my gf wouldn't really care because she knows she is the only girl for me.
 
Originally posted by: CPA
I am so glad my wife is a lot more laid back. Hell, she'd probably want to go.
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My lady is pretty laid back, she has no problem with my pr0n addiction. Which is one of the reasons I was actually surprised by her position on this.
 
I had a stripper at my bachealor party... It's part of the tradition. I never had the slightest inlking of wanting to do anything further with the stripper. Can you imagine getting an STD or something from them and having to deal with that for the rest of your married life(if you wife would still be with you after something like that I don't know).
 
Originally posted by: Amused
Oh, and one more thing:

Never, and I mean NEVER accept an ultimatum from a woman.

That single bit of wisdom was the most important my father passed on to me.

The worst thing you can ever do for yourself is become a doormat to some woman.
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There's no ultimatum. I just don't like the possibility of her being upset on my wedding day.
 
my bachelor's party was a fishing trip. nice, clean, and fun. i threw one for my bro where a bunch of us went down to baja for a surf safari.

ho's just seem so tom hanks/80s. 😛
 
Originally posted by: PingSpike
Originally posted by: Amused
Oh, and one more thing:

Never, and I mean NEVER accept an ultimatum from a woman.

That single bit of wisdom was the most important my father passed on to me.

The worst thing you can ever do for yourself is become a doormat to some woman.
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There's no ultimatum. I just don't like the possibility of her being upset on my wedding day.
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Sounds like an ultimatum to me.
 
Honestly I think that's best for youl. I can see going to a strip club for your BP. That's a good middle ground, but having a couple in a private residence to me spells disaster. They will undoubtedly know that you're the groom, and as such should receive extra special attention. For all you know your friends will pay them extra to see if they can get your hands all over them, "just for fun", because that's how guys are. Go to a club and call it even.

Re ultimatums I'm not sure what the difference between one and an agreement is.
 
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