A perspective as to why lots of women play mind games

[Hyperblaze]

I was thinking of this tonight...and came up with one reason...discussed it with a female friend of mine, and she agreed to a point...and added aother reason.

A problem with a lot of women is this....

i believe that a lot of guys have half screwed up the dating scene.

you constantly see guys who are like "i'd hit it!"

they mess with a woman's head and women tend to get more cautious afterwards.

the mind games they play is almost like a security check.

the security check is to see if the guy has genuine interest in her...or just wants to have sex with her.

you meet a woman who doesn't play mind games....and you meet a woman who hasn't had her mind messed up by a guy.

My friend told me she agreed to a point.....but also added this reason too

i think its also because women are used to playing mind games and having psychological wars with each other...and it gets translated over to relationships with guys

 

[spidey07]

no need to over analyze.

"the security check is to see if the guy has genuine interest in her...or just wants to have sex with her. "

That's the answer right there. Plus they like being chased.

Or my theory - They're just too stupid and selfish to know any better.

 

[shimsham]

your friend is right. its all one big contest.

chicks are crazy until you train them correctly.

 

[Kishan]

Originally posted by: spidey07
no need to over analyze.

"the security check is to see if the guy has genuine interest in her...or just wants to have sex with her. "

That's the answer right there. Plus they like being chased.

Or my theory - They're just too stupid and selfish to know any better.

THANK YOU! If I said that, I would be called a woman hater, but I really do believe this is true. Its nature for women to be picky since men are always competeing for them. They want to have it all, when that will never be possible. It is possible to be happy, but not content.

 

[AreaCode707]

Girls play mind games for lots of reasons. But I think they're all really rooted in this:

Girls think AAAAALLLL the time. They think about what they're thinking, they think about what their friends are thinking about, they think about what strangers are thinking about, they think about what guys are thinking about. But most of all they think about what YOU'RE thinking about. But you see, if they ask straight out then they think you'll make up an answer. So they play all these games to try to get you to say what you're REALLY thinking, without actually asking you. Now, you may be thinking, "geez, I wish she'd wear something like I saw on that Victoria's Secret site last night." But you see, even if you told her that she'd never believe you. Which leads to the sad fate of her setting up these situations to figure out what you're REALLY thinking, where you have to make up something that you WEREN'T really thinking, in order for her to feel satisfied that she got your real thoughts.

Ironic, isn't it?