A love question

[TDY2KN01]

Hi. I just met a girl I think Im falling for. I want to know if she likes me or not and if she doesnt, how do I get her to notice me. I'm basically looking for tricks I can use to win her over. Are there any site on the web that could tell me? Thx

 

[Kadarin]

Not sure about websites, but here are some ideas:

- self-confidence
- sense of humor
- good conversationalist
- good looking
- good listener

Things to avoid:

- being stuck up
- bad breath
- talking about science fiction
- asking questions with yes or no answers
- bad hygeine
- appearing desperate


Just some thoughts...

 

[BamBam215]

<< I'm basically looking for tricks I can use to win her over >>



You shouldn't have to trick someone into falling in love with you. Plus love is a two way street. If you guys aren't even in a relationship yet... you just might be caught in that infatuation stage. It's hard to tell the difference when you want someone that bad. I'd say just be yourself. If she likes you for you, then things will happen. Just don't wait around for things to magically fall into place. Girls usually like people who are self confident, so just ask her out on a date.

If I'm with a girl that I'm digging and I'm not sure if she's into me... I usually try a little casual flirting, and see how she responds. Body language can tell a lot about how a person is feeling about you.

If you do need a "trick" persay, just try listening to what she likes. If you guys are hanging out and she happens to mention she has a sweet tooth for a particular brand of chocolate... surprising her with it will let her know that you're listening to her and not just nodding your head as you stare at her rack.

 

[Sluggo]

Learn to lick your eyebrows, she will be putty in your hands.

 

[kranky]

<< Are there any site on the web that could tell me? >>
This is an example of something that you handle by getting off the computer.

Ask her out. She might say yes. And if she says no, so what? Look for someone else. Tricks aren't the answer.

 

[AreaCode707]

Get to be friends, at the same time you're figuring out a way to let her know you like her. It shows an interest in her as well as whatever you might potentially get from a gf/bf relationship. And be honest with her; simply letting her know how you feel without any pressure back lets her be honest with you.

 

[TuffGirl]

Hey HotChic, I'm surprised you didn't recommend this site, which I first learned of from one of your posts. That should give you a wealth of ideas, TDY2KN01.

 

[Ns1]

<< Get to be friends, at the same time you're figuring out a way to let her know you like her. It shows an interest in her as well as whatever you might potentially get from a gf/bf relationship. And be honest with her; simply letting her know how you feel without any pressure back lets her be honest with you. >>




And if she says "let's just be friends" run, run far far faaaaaaaaaaaaar away

 

[TranceNation]

you need one of those love potions they sell on the net

 

[kaiotes]

And if she says "let's just be friends" run, run far far faaaaaaaaaaaaar away[/i] >>




completely AGREE

 

[Koing]

grow a spine and tell her you like her and that guys should be in a relationship.

YOU get a definately reply then, and then you make of it. If its she doesn't want a relationship no or ever you read in to that. Just go on to the nxt girl. If shes *not* ready or something like that you read more in to it and see if shes really not ready or shes just playing you on or trying to let you go without hurting you.

I probably wouldn't tell her my feelings for her if you guys don't hang out much or go out together though. That might be too much for her if you guys don't hang out.

try here

go in to the relationships section and it offers good advice. But you still have to have the confidence to follow through though.......

 

[Robert01]

<< And if she says "let's just be friends" run, run far far faaaaaaaaaaaaar away >>

Nothing wrong with having a female friend, if that's what you're looking for, or if you can accept it. Stay her friend either way...she probably has a hot friend or two that are single.

<< I want to know if she likes me or not and if she doesnt, how do I get her to notice me. >>

Girls will let you know if they like you or not. Even if they are shy. As it has been mentioned before, body language is a key factor.

Ask her for her home phone # and give her a call. If she doesn't answer, leave a message. Then leave it up to her. If she doesn't call back, move on. If she does, relax....

 

[Ns1]

there's nothing wrong with having a female friend, as long as she's just that, a female friend. if you want to start a relationship with her, that's where problems arise

 

[TDY2KN01]

Thx guy. I will try to follow some of the advice.