A-Hole for a Friend

Juice Box

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OK, so, i have this really good friend who Ive been haning out with for awhile now. He got an online GF who lives in Texas (we are in IL) about 5 months ago, who hes really close with. About a month ago, him and I started taking drives for the fun of it just to talk about stuff. After a few drives, he began to call his online GF when we began driving, and I was kinda cool with it for awhile. After a little bit, i ask him to hang up so we could talk more, and he was like "fine". The next time, his GF apparently had "a friend who was interested in hooking up with me" when she came to visit. He knew i was desperate and looking for a girl, so he told me about this. I of course gave in, and began trying to talk to her. She was always "too shy" to talk however, and I never spoke to her, but he still led me on, (btw, she was super hot, i saw a pic) anyways, tonight, we are driving, and I talk to his GF, and she tells me that her friend "got raped in school last week" and doesnt want to meet anymore....... Im like, ok..... so I drop him off, and he tells his GF "Oh shoot, I got to go, Ill call you tomorrow.. then proceeds to ask me if we can go driving tomorrow. Apparently, his folks dont approve of this relationship, and he was using me to get out of the house to talk to her. I told him I didnt know, but once I figured it out, I was pissed. Im not sure what to do now, but I know he was leading me on, and thats a pretty b!tchy thing to do I would think. This really upsets me cause hes a good friend of mine. Any suggestions?

Cliffs:

Have a friend with online GF from TX <we in IL>
Him and I drive around alot to talk
He begins calling her
I got mad cause we are not talking
He makes up a story about his GF having a friend who wants to hook up with me
Me being desperate, I fall in
It goes on for a long time, and she is "too shy" to talk to me
she "got raped" at school last week, and dont wanna hook up
I figure out I was being used by my good friend
 

Maleficus

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Originally posted by: kyparrish
He's blinded by the pu$$y. He's still your friend.

Yep, he was being a bitch no doubt, but we all do stupid things at one point in time when it comes to the opposite sex.
 

Juice Box

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Originally posted by: Audiophile1980
Tell him you're gay. No more long drives.

lol, I dont think thats it. But, I personally like long drives, whether it be me alone, or with a friend, it really helps me forget about stuff and clear my mind
 

Stark

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you sound like a jealous homo in the closet who's in love with his friend
not saying you are, just that you sound like one


you might want to re-think your position
 

Juice Box

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Im not jealous, I am pretty sure they will never meet

Im def not gay

and Im not in love with his GF
 

yllus

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Originally posted by: Stark
you sound like a jealous homo in the closet who's in love with his friend
I have to say, I thought the same thing.

It is your DUTY as a friend to help your friend in his quest for chicks. He should have told you what the deal was from the start, but who freaking cares? Are you that upset that he didn't want to spend time with you after all? Don't be such a little girl. :roll:
 

sniperruff

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yeah i'd just stay away from the guy then. afterall he's being dishonest with you for so long and has already labeled you a sucker that he can always go back to.
 

Juice Box

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Originally posted by: sniperruff
yeah i'd just stay away from the guy then. afterall he's being dishonest with you for so long and has already labeled you a sucker that he can always go back to.

yeah, thats what I was afraid of
 

kb315

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I think your friend is an asshole for wasting your time. If he really wanted to go talk to his gf, why did he half to string you along. He should have just found another way instead of going with long drives with you.
 

Kishan

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tell him to go fvck himself. then you pray hes thinking about his "girlfriend," instead of missing you when he's beating off in the desert alone crying.
 

rsd

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This is hillarious...sorry.

Tell your friend to get a real relationship, and stop being his chauffeur. Also avoid this internet "hookups" imho, and work on your social skills and less on driving Miss Daisy.
 

Evdawg

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Originally posted by: Maleficus
Originally posted by: kyparrish
He's blinded by the pu$$y. He's still your friend.

Yep, he was being a bitch no doubt, but we all do stupid things at one point in time when it comes to the opposite sex.


my girlfriend who i was in LOVE with dumped me then took my BEST FRIEND. I know how it feels.. he just dones tknow what hes doing, give him time.