meh... I'm not really sure. I was pretty sure that it was basically a selector fork problem.... sometimes when I'd put it into 4th, it would make a grinding noise.... and most of the time is was really hard to put into reverse.... I'd throw the selector into place and let out the clutch gradually only to a terrible grinding noise. Sometimes double-clutching would work and I could put it into reverse, but many times I've just had to hang out the door and push the car back out of its parking space, after I got embarrassed by the 5 minutes spent grinding my transmission.
So that *was* the problem.... and I lived with it. But then one night I drove it home (thankfully it got home) and when I pulled into the space where I park, it kind of 'locked' into place. I thought that maybe I had run into a pothole or something, and I'd check it in the morning. Nope, I was on flat ground, but the front wheels (the drive wheels) wouldn't rotate past 30 degrees or so. I could turn on the engine, shift into first, and let out the clutch, and the car would move forward a couple of inches before seemingly running into a solid brick wall and bouncing back a bit. The wheels simply wouldn't go any past that point, not even with the full torque of the engine trying to break them free. I could rock it back and forth, but nothing past that point. I posted here, and somebody suggested that it was stuck into two gears at once... so I'm pretty sure that it got stuck in Reverse. I could get forward movement in all of the forward gears, but I couldn't get reverse to engage at all.
So this should just be a selector problem and not a complete-transmission problem, but I'm not a mechanic. I had it towed (kind of sad to see the thing just dragged onto the flatbed tow-truck, since the front wheels were locked) and now they say it's gonna cost me $950. I don't know, I would just like some advice.... I'm kind of fvcked because the car can't really be taken anywhere else very easily. (I.e. a second opinion) I have no idea how they've been moving the thing around in the shop.... they'd have to pick up the whole front end of the car in order to get it to move anywhere. For that matter, I have no idea how they got if off the tow truck in the first place.