this thread is a perfect example why race ralations are shit and won't get better anytime soon.
there are some with so much white guilt they refuse to look at the problem honestly. instead they are content to blame whites. Then on the other hand you have those that can't look at the problem and understand it.
its not money. Schools in Chicago get more per student then the country schools. yet schools in the country score higher and don't have the crime issue.
sadly its a colture issue. I have no clue how you can change that.
on a personal note i have seen how it effects young girls. I have 2 black sisters (younger then me by10 years or so and im 38). both have kids and don't know the father. where it is different is one lived out in the country and worked/school. teh other went to live with family in Chicago.
the older of the 2 stayed out near her family in the country. while she struggles to pay her bills and school (nursing) she polity takes the help and repays it by helping us as much as she can.
The other one came for a visit during Christmas. she came with no diapers, no car seat (though she did take a train) and no winter clothes. she expected everyone to buy name brand diapers and clothes. she turned down a used (but very nice) carseat because it was brown.
both were nice before they moved from home. only thing different i can see was where they lived and the culture where they lived.
Assuming you are including my comments, you are clueless and wrong.
You have this little script you spit out mindlessly when you see any comments not fitting it.
You take when I say 'the primary responsibility for improving problems in black culture is with blacks' and you ignore it to misrepresent it with the lie that my post is 'white guilt'.
Great propaganda phrase, 'white guilt' - it excuses recognizing the facts and history you are ignorant about and justifyig continuing staying ignorant.
It's like calling gays' desire to end discrimination against them a "gay agenda" easy to oppose as "special treatment" when it's the opposite, and even "an attack on marriage".
When you say you have no clue how to change it, that's honest. And I don't mean that as an attack - it's a very challenging issue no one has great clean answers for.
But a start is to get rid of the ignorance you are wallowing in.
There is much to hate about the problems - but there are contructive and destructive attitudes about them.
Sadly, a lot of people like to remain ignorant of the causes and any sense of obligation to one another in society and any sacrifice to help improve them.
They just want them to somehow disappear, and if they don't, to blame the blacks.
I have no problem with aggressively recognizing the problems - when put in a contructive approach asking what can be done to improve things.
Thing is, if blacks did erase all these issues overnight, they'd be taking up a lot more high paid positions replacing whites, education positions replacing whites, there'd be a lot more whites needed in menial positions - a lot of changes whites aren't really anxious to see happen, and don't understand in many cases they feel that way.
There's a certain mentality that comes with being 'on top' in wealth, even among the poorer classes if they're still better finanically than other cultures. Who really thinks of a Mexico that's like a Canada, our peer, or our fields filled with a lot of non-hispanics picking our food? Even when whites did that work, they were a social sub-class, as shown in the documentary "Harvest of Shame". That mentality has a lot of anger and blame towards the poor, not any morality or justice. It shamelessly exploits while blaming the victims.
Go to a banana republic and look at a ruling family who owns enormous wealth while people are sturggling for food, and you will find them viewing the poor with anger and disgust and blame, resentful of how much is done for the poor, tired of hearing the complaints against the inequality. They tend not to lose sleep at night over 'guilt'.
Hell, look at Assad in Syra right now - as he murders thousands of innocent citizens to keep his privilege, he gives an interview to Barbara Walters denying it, saying 'only a crazy person would kill his own people'. There's a sense of entitlement. It's hard for people further to understand - but they can see a taste of it in how they hate our poor.
You're right in your identification of the anecdote of the two girls - the question is, what will help? Stop attacking the people who point out the various causes.
There were many excuses to keep slavery, many excuses to keep colonization, many excuses to keep segregation, and there are many excuses to oppose anti-poverty policies.
If we took a normal state - pick any state, Florida, Arizona, Masssachussetts, whatever - and if we said "there are no more police, unlimited drugs, unlimited prostitution, and criminal organizations will be allowed to operate", how long would it take for that *majority white* society to degrade and become one filled with another culture? People would resist initially, but it would slide IMO. You could point your finger at the people and blame them, with some justification, but what good would that do?
A problem is the majoriyt whites who refuse to have any interest in and suppiort for things that will help undo some of the harmful situations that exist.
They cling to the simple and insufficient - "longer sentences! longer sentences! zero tolerance!" - which can provide some benefit - at human cost - but are inadequate.
The thing is, the whites who do this don't do it out of racism or hate generally. It's ignorance.
One note - ignorance isn't just on the right, opposing efforts; the left can often be ignorant too, wanting to help and pursuing misguided, well-intentioned polices that don't help.
Like I said, the issue is complicated, and solutions will take time - if we make the effort and try to change things, requiring both blacks and whites to support it.