I wish the industry didn't accept this BS. I am not sure who is the blame, nVidia, ATi, or the Notebook MFG's.
The huge problem with notebook graphics cards are pretty much the lack of specifications. This is no accident, though some might try and convince you of this.
GDR2 or GDR3 is somewhat meaningless unless we KNOW the clock speeds. Dell does NOT have the clock speed of their GDR2 8600m listed anywhere, so who knows how fast it is! Frustrating, honestly. Is it clocked at 800Mhz? 400Mhz? Memory bandwidth on 128bit interface is a SERIOUS problem, so proceed with caution BEFORE you buy any laptop with a supposed graphics card. If a deal is too good to be true on a laptop, it probably is! They castrated the card in some way, you can be sure of it.
Edit ** Well, the best educated guess I can give you for an answer is that Dell uses GDR2 at 800Mhz (not 100% sure, since they can clock it however fast they want, but 800Mhz is spec for GDR2 version).
With that known, also with the core clock and shader speed with 32 stream processors, we can pretty much subtract about 25-35% performance from a desktop 8600 GT card. I would be willing to bet some money on this too...
8600 GT - 8600m GT
32 Stream Proc - 32 Stream Proc
540 Core Clock - 475 Core Clock
1.2Ghz Shader Clock - 950Mhz Shader Clock
1400 Memory Clock - 800 Memory Clock
Looks pretty clear to me that the desktop card is going to be about 30% faster on average than the 8600m GT laptop card.
So, I would advice you to just check out the anandtech.com review on the 8600 desktop line and compare your results to an 8600 GT, then subtract about 30% off of that.