This is normal
Unfortunetly the limitation is with the on-die memory controller on the current revision chips, and it applys to all A64 motherboards. With 4 sticks it will always drop to DDR333 and a 2T command rate which is actually much worse than the DDR333 speed.
The drop from DDR400 to DDR333 is rumored to be fixed with the improved memory controllers in the new Venice and San Diego core chips that are being released in a couple of weeks. But I'm pretty sure you will still have 2T with 4 sticks.
Bottom line, there is always a performance penalty for using 4 sticks. 2 x 1024 is much better than 4 x 512 performance wise, but also much more expensive.
*edit*
Somebody should come up with a way to toggle between 2sticks/4sticks in Windows. Then you could run 1gb when overclocking, gaming, and normal apps, and switch over to 2gb to run memory intensive proggies, like video encoding, web hosting, etc...