25 year old hanging out with a 19 year old - weird or creepy?

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Blazin Trav

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Originally posted by: l6873
Originally posted by: Sqube
If she was illegal, it would be weird and/or creepy.

Don't sweat it, your friend is just hating.

In Canada the age of consent is 14. Would it be wierd or creepy for a 25 year old to hang out with a 14 year old in Canada?

Use your common sense. Age difference of 11 years is much different than say, 6 years. I'd say 5 or 6 years age diff is the max, but I've seen really young women go out with the older, rich guys. I guess it just depends. If it works out for you, go for it.
 

skyking

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That's fine. Where it gets wierd is if she takes you somewhere and everybody there is younger yet, like 16~17. That would get awkward, IMO.
 

ailetlvo

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The age thing is not creepy at all, unless wherever you guys meet up she has 4 of her friends, all 19, hanging out. Then they might look at you weird.

Obviously, you can't go drinking with her, so just talk to her, get to know her, whatever you need to do, and then find out where all the "hotspots" are, where the drinking holes are. She's 19, she has to know something about that.
 

SOSTrooper

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I'm 27 and I'm 6 years older than my girlfriend. The only thing weird is that she's more mature than I am. :D
 

Horus

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my 19 year old ex-girlfriend is dating a 29 year old. That's weird. Your situation is not.
 

DannyLove

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not really at all... I have hung out with 19 year old, young girls...
The first thing you'll notice is their maturity level... it's extremely low and it CAN get annoying..

There is also nothing wrong with banging a 19 year old at 25 either :)

trophy wife! ;)
 
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Originally posted by: yllus
Of course this is freedomsbeat212, providing a 99.8% chance that he will never get together with this girl and that the entire scenario is fictional - she simply said hi to him over private message on MySpace and now he's dramatizing it like he's done 190575 times here before.

Actually, I've never been too proud or cool to say that i'm a total dork when it comes to women. Re-read my YAGT posts (and this is NOT a yagt post, I will *never* date a 19 year old just because I spend a lot of time drinking and.. well.. it wouldn't work out), I'm not bragging - I'm admitting how pathetic and clueless I am when it comes to dating. And haven't had a serious relationship in over a year - could I be less braggy than that?

Anyways, I'm going ahead and meeting her tonight. I think we'll just see a movie or have pizza - she's underage so, unless she has fake-id, i don't see how we're going to get into any bars (though it is weird that she suggested that). Any last advice?
 
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Originally posted by: BW86
your friends are just jealous

Common theory here but the friend who told me to not go through with is a girl as well.. And my males friends have never, ever been jealous of me - the girls they hook up with make me the jealous one..
 

Miramonti

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Go. I've met people that age who have a better head on their shoulders than people 2x their age.
 
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UPDATED FOR CLARITY
I'm updating the original post because people aren't reading my follow ups and therefor asking the same questions again:

- "Your buddy is jealous"
I don't get that, my buddy is a girl as well - it's not a male friend of mine who wishes he could get with a 19 year old

-I don't want to get with a 19 year old- I just need more friends around here.. 99% of my new neighborhood is over 65... It SUCKS

-Pic requests:
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jpeyton

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She's cute, hit that or I will.
 

Paddington

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There's nothing creepy about it.

As a man you're allowed to date younger women, in fact you're expected to do so. A woman's desireability falls off drastically after she's 25 or so. But a man whose 40 is as wanted by women as a man whose 20, or perhaps even more so since he's well settled in life. Those are the facts, my friend.

<-- 23 years old, and dates lots of 18-20 somethings that wouldn't have looked his way a few years ago.
 

jpeyton

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Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: jpeyton
She's cute, hit that or I will.

Go for it since I'm not!

Why not? Looks like she's got great DSL.
 
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Originally posted by: jpeyton
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: jpeyton
She's cute, hit that or I will.

Go for it since I'm not!

Why not? Looks like she's got great DSL.

a) she's too young to date (not too young to have pizza or see a movie with)
b) what would she do when I go out to get drunk, as I do every friday
c) not every girl is a conquest to me - i have mostly female friends
d) she's not my type
 

Nutdotnet

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Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: jpeyton
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: jpeyton
She's cute, hit that or I will.

Go for it since I'm not!

Why not? Looks like she's got great DSL.

a) she's too young to date (not too young to have pizza or see a movie with)
b) what would she do when I go out to get drunk, as I do every friday
c) not every girl is a conquest to me - i have mostly female friends
d) she's not my type

e)I'm gay (not that there's anything wrong with that)
 

Blazin Trav

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Go for it, now. You only live once.

My opinion is every chance you don't take on a girl is like one less chance to have fun.
 

jpeyton

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Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: jpeyton
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: jpeyton
She's cute, hit that or I will.

Go for it since I'm not!

Why not? Looks like she's got great DSL.

a) she's too young to date (not too young to have pizza or see a movie with)
b) what would she do when I go out to get drunk, as I do every friday
c) not every girl is a conquest to me - i have mostly female friends
d) she's not my type

How is any of this relevant when you're staring at the back of her head?