Yeah, there is such an option, and I just tried that. I loaded the P45 chipset drivers, and rebooted, and Vista then booted to a black screen. I could boot to Safe mode, but then the CDs wouldn't recognize the hardware. I think this is interesting, because it's an indicator that Safe mode won't recognize what the mobo / video card (and thus won't load drivers), and that I should just load all the drivers at once, and see if that helps. I've pulled off all of the drivers from the MSI site, so I'll be using those, instead of the CD ones.
Also, the voltages on the mobo all have an "autodetect" setting. I have been leaving that setting alone, but I'll manually set that from now on. Also, I'll make sure that the RAM timings are correct, and then go through EVERY OTHER option in the BIOS and make sure it's correct.
Regarding the BIOS, I was very tempted to flash it. However, my understanding is that you're not supposed to flash the BIOS unless you know that your system is stable. Is that true in every case, or is this an example of an exception?
Here's a Newegg.com link for my memory (voltage: 1.9V, timings: 5-5-5-18)
http://www.newegg.com/Product/...x?Item=N82E16820145184
Also, I'm definitely not overclocking yet. Obviously, I had this in mind for a future project, maybe a few months down the road, which is why I chose this motherboard. I'll check into the PSU issue in a sec...