"17 lies we need to stop telling girls about sex"

[rudeguy]

9. Boys buy the condoms.

I once dated a girl who had a Costco size box of condoms under her bed.

mom?

 

[Jeff7]

God damn our species is seriously screwed up in the head when it comes to sex.




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[SirStev0]

The stretch thing: As a doctor who does female pelvic organ prolapse surgery, I can assure you it does stretch out... but time and genetics are the largest factors. Pelvic floor is a very stretchable hammock of muscles. The only support is a couple of loose ligaments that also hang on for dear life to hold up the uterus and vagina.

 

[MongGrel]

Why did I even look

Laters

 

[John Connor]

#18: The female is allowed to be on top from time to time and do some work too...

That's how I fucked for the first time. LOL Didn't do much work at all.

 

[SSSnail]

#5 You never ”owe” someone sex, ever
Wrong, if someone pays for said sex, one should reasonably expect the recipient to owe that person that sexy time, damn it.

 

[MongGrel]

In my experience the craziest women were the ones most repressed as girls.

Trust me, that's not always true.

Actually most of the time isn't.

That and the hotter looking chicks usually seem to have more STD's and seem casual about it, but I haven't been in the casual sex department a long time now for many years I guess.

It used to be that way, I doubt it had changed much.

 

[Ns1]

Only the smart boys; who can be sure their equipment hasn't had holes poked in it? Plus you'd be at the mercy of the girl deciding which ones she likes best which may be less pleasurable for the guy (almost always).

Exactly how my buddy got stuck.

 

[zerocool84]

#21

If you dress like a skank, people will treat you like one.

 

[OCGuy]

#5 You never ”owe” someone sex, ever
Wrong, if someone pays for said sex, one should reasonably expect the recipient to owe that person that sexy time, damn it.

No way, I can't wait to point to that one the next time my SO thinks she is owed one after I..errr..."rush" the situation, roll off, then watch Sportscenter.

 

[HeXen]

Condoms suck almost all the fun out of it.

Crown skinless is about as good as they can get. It's the good looking girls you have to watch out for when it comes to STD's going bareback cause you know every guy they screw wants to spluge in them. The fat girls the guy will always try to pull out or use a rubber...so the ugly ones are likely safer according to my theory.

 

[VulgarDisplay]

Crown skinless is about as good as they can get. It's the good looking girls you have to watch out for when it comes to STD's going bareback cause you know every guy they screw wants to spluge in them. The fat girls the guy will always try to pull out or use a rubber...so the ugly ones are likely safer according to my theory.

You do know spluge isn't necessarily what transmits std's right?

 

[Paladin3]

Smart men do buy their own condoms. The risk of tampering is too great.

A mature woman should know well enough if she wants to have sex or not before she starts. While no person should EVER keep going if their partner says stop, the trend of women starting the act then saying no partway through is just an immature control tactic. Grow up and make your decision before you get things started. If you are iffy about it then just say no up front.

Most of the other things the author claims we are telling girls we simply aren't. I've got two daughters and I've never told them any of the B.S. from this article. My daughters are too smart to buy into any of this crap and would probably feel insulted by anyone who thought they were.

 

[her209]

Someone post the list.

Summarization:

True story bro.

 

[mikeymikec]

The stretch thing: As a doctor who does female pelvic organ prolapse surgery, I can assure you it does stretch out... but time and genetics are the largest factors. Pelvic floor is a very stretchable hammock of muscles. The only support is a couple of loose ligaments that also hang on for dear life to hold up the uterus and vagina.

The article didn't say "this never happens", the article is about "17 lies we need to stop telling girls about sex", in the context of "the first things we should educate girls about sex", coming out with this would be like telling a five year old that they ought to have regular breast cancer screenings. Back to the point, It's not even vaguely logical unless your aim is to cause extreme worry about how much sex is too much. I'm also wondering whether you actually read the text with regard to that point, because they don't paint it as black and white as you suggest they do.

I'm sure there are some conditions that men could get if they have too much sex (aside from possible STDs), but society doesn't spend time trying to indoctrinate men into thinking something like "it'll fall off if you do x", whereas society does seem to spend a lot of time trying to make girls think some very particular and odd things about their sexuality. The same sort of thing is aimed at men as well, but nowhere near to the extent that it is for women.

Most of the other things the author claims we are telling girls we simply aren't. I've got two daughters and I've never told them any of the B.S. from this article. My daughters are too smart to buy into any of this crap and would probably feel insulted by anyone who thought they were.

The article didn't say "every parent is saying x to their kids". I don't even have kids and I've heard of every one of those points before that the article mentions. I'm pretty sure you have too.