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Triforceofcourage

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Give what you can afford and that should be fine. If your sister and her fiance doesn't think thats enough then they are classless people.
 

Freejack2

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I think $250 is a good amount to spend on them. Even then if you only have $200 left over a month maybe you should get them a nice gift for $50 an call it a day. I don't think your sister expects you to go broke over her wedding. She'll probably be happy just to have you there.
 

Originally posted by: FoBoT
if they have enough to pay for a $5000 honeymoon, then just give them a card, they don't need your money
Never been to a wedding before? Or one where you are actually in a position to give a true gift?

Give them $100.
 

Koing

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Originally posted by: badmouse
She's your sister, and she's going to be your sister for a long, long time. Do something that feels right to you so that you won't ever think about it with bad feelings.

Come up with a sum of money that has special meaning to the both of you. For example, the price of a bicycle that you had that she really wanted. Or something like "here's one dollar for every time I told you that you were an idiot - $5219" Or "remember that stuffed bunny I had that you always wanted? It's available on ebay for $150 - here's the money"

The idea is to come up with something really special to the two of you, and tie the money to that.

Very good idea :D

I'd go with $200. A wedding is HOPEFULLY a once in a life time thing.

Koing