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11-01-2012, 10:29 AM
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Lifer
Join Date: Dec 2004
Location: SoCal
Posts: 36,050
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I would give you some advice, but they're all frown upon by... people... so you'll just have to come up with your own ideas.
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11-01-2012, 10:33 AM
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#77
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Lifer
Join Date: May 2003
Location: Atlanta, GA area
Posts: 18,532
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Take pics of your possessions and store those pics offsite/online somewhere just in case you do encounter a situation where stuff gets broken or stolen.
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11-06-2012, 04:01 PM
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Lifer
Join Date: Jan 2005
Location: Land of Ooze
Posts: 17,413
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Hey everyone, brief update. Things went a lot better than usual. This is what went down.
After reading the thread, we decided we should probably try to kick him out without bringing up past issues. He defended his actions (cat abuse, drug deals, etc) tooth and nail. So, we decided to find a ploy to get him out. He came by the other day, and I said "Hey, we're going to move the weight rack in the garage into your room since the room is virtually unused anyway," He agreed and I figured it was implied he was done. He left, and I forgot to ask for the keys. When he came back the next day, I asked for the keys, and he left while I was in the john.
I finally got a hold of him just a bit ago via telephone to clear up some stuff. I told him that he wasn't really around and we wanted to use that room. And since he never stayed there, I figured it wasn't going to be a big deal. I asked if we were cool, and he was a little wishy-washy. He seemed to start pouting, and quickly ended the conversation.
We still don't have the keys, but after consulting with a few people, we are able to change the locks without issue.
Last edited by Saint Nick; 11-06-2012 at 04:04 PM.
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11-06-2012, 04:06 PM
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Lifer
Join Date: Jan 2001
Location: ↑ ↑ ↓ ↓ ← → ← → B A Start
Posts: 28,558
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Did you change the locks WITH your landlord's permission?
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11-06-2012, 04:07 PM
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Lifer
Join Date: Nov 2004
Location: Somewhere over the rainbow
Posts: 32,402
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Congratulations? :^D
What a weird situation. I'd have expected more... something...
"We're moving the weights into your room. Don't bother coming back"
"ok"
:^D
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11-06-2012, 04:07 PM
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#81
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Lifer
Join Date: Jan 2005
Location: Land of Ooze
Posts: 17,413
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Quote:
Originally Posted by SunnyD
Did you change the locks WITH your landlord's permission?
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Of course. All is well.
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11-06-2012, 04:50 PM
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#82
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Diamond Member
Join Date: Apr 2010
Location: THE INTERNET
Posts: 8,999
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He should have been booted moment animal abuse happened.
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11-06-2012, 05:18 PM
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Lifer
Join Date: Jan 2005
Location: Land of Ooze
Posts: 17,413
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Quote:
Originally Posted by SaDiZTiKStyLeZ
He should have been booted moment animal abuse happened.
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Yep and I've been called out on that numerous time. Won't happen again.
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11-06-2012, 05:43 PM
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Lifer
Join Date: Apr 2004
Location: Baltimore, MD
Posts: 23,120
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Weird ending, but it doesn't sound like it was too confrontational, so he *probably* won't try to "take revenge" later.
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11-07-2012, 08:53 AM
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Lifer
Join Date: Jan 2005
Location: Land of Ooze
Posts: 17,413
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He refuses to talk to me on the phone. He keeps sending us texts like "How long were you planning on kicking me out?" and something along the lines of "I guess you finally got what you wanted."
I guess I did
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11-07-2012, 09:48 AM
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Administrator Discussion Club Moderator Elite Member
Join Date: Oct 2000
Posts: 40,111
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Saint Nick
He refuses to talk to me on the phone. He keeps sending us texts like "How long were you planning on kicking me out?" and something along the lines of "I guess you finally got what you wanted."
I guess I did 
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Drop him off the list of friends.
Ignore the texts and phone calls.
He knows what he did is wrong - that is why no face to face attempt to plead his case.
He is trying to make you feel guilty and offer another chance.
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11-07-2012, 10:20 AM
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Diamond Member
Join Date: Dec 2006
Posts: 6,393
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Saint Nick you did the right thing. It sounds like you handled this as best you could.
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11-07-2012, 10:37 AM
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Lifer
Join Date: Jan 2005
Location: Land of Ooze
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Turns out he deleted me and my g/f off Facebook (blocked us as well). He has been contacting my friends to see if "they knew he was going to get kicked out". He is handling this like a little girl.
Lol.
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11-07-2012, 10:54 AM
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Diamond Member
Join Date: Oct 2006
Posts: 6,807
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I don't think that what you did is 100% legal, but it sounds like he's too much of a dumbass to realize that.
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11-07-2012, 12:08 PM
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Lifer
Join Date: Jun 2001
Location: A Warm Place
Posts: 37,022
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he's bitter and crazy. watch out.
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11-07-2012, 12:20 PM
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Diamond Member
Join Date: Nov 2009
Posts: 5,696
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When shit goes down, you find out who your true friends are.
He was never your friend. If he was he would've heard you out when you brought up the concerns and be considered.
But you can't expect that from someone that's not thinking clearly (on meds/drugs) etc.
Keep in mind that his drug buddies are just people that use with him/sell to him......nothing to be concerned about. When he doesn't use or buy those people will disappear in an instant.
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11-07-2012, 12:32 PM
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Diamond Member
Join Date: Jan 2006
Location: CT
Posts: 4,214
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Saint Nick
Turns out he deleted me and my g/f off Facebook (blocked us as well).
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Oh it's on now, mang. *eyeroll*
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11-07-2012, 12:37 PM
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Lifer
Join Date: Sep 2001
Posts: 30,851
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lol @ the update. still don't get why you guys are scared shitless to confront him. instead of doing that you all dilly dally around the point and assume he is 'out'.
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and i also find it funny that you are saying he is acting like a girl about this, when you aren't even man enough to confront him about the issue.
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11-07-2012, 12:41 PM
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Lifer
Join Date: Jun 2004
Posts: 15,411
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Quote:
Originally Posted by purbeast0
lol @ the update. still don't get why you guys are scared shitless to confront him. instead of doing that you all dilly dally around the point and assume he is 'out'.
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and i also find it funny that you are saying he is acting like a girl about this, when you aren't even man enough to confront him about the issue.
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Hey, you just wait til they unleash the hardcore, in your face, nasty, down and dirty apps they've been dl for this event. And, the things they'll say about him on FB aren't for the faint of heart either.
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11-07-2012, 12:42 PM
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Diamond Member
Join Date: Nov 2009
Posts: 5,696
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Quote:
Originally Posted by purbeast0
lol @ the update. still don't get why you guys are scared shitless to confront him. instead of doing that you all dilly dally around the point and assume he is 'out'.
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and i also find it funny that you are saying he is acting like a girl about this, when you aren't even man enough to confront him about the issue.
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I'm gonna have to agree with this.
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11-07-2012, 12:55 PM
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Lifer
Join Date: Jan 2005
Location: Land of Ooze
Posts: 17,413
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Quote:
Originally Posted by purbeast0
lol @ the update. still don't get why you guys are scared shitless to confront him. instead of doing that you all dilly dally around the point and assume he is 'out'.
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and i also find it funny that you are saying he is acting like a girl about this, when you aren't even man enough to confront him about the issue.
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I did confront him and really he's the one that skirted the issue. I've also tried calling him numerous times, as well as my lady. It's not like we're the one's avoiding him. The dude is never around to talk to, so I tried to call him on multiple occasions only to get a text back that says "Not on the phone." I told him to come over and talk. And he never did.
All I can say is that this has been an eye opening experience. I am sure this would have been the result regardless of "how" we did it. No more room mates for this guy.
Last edited by Saint Nick; 11-07-2012 at 01:00 PM.
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11-07-2012, 11:26 PM
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#97
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Lifer
Join Date: Nov 2002
Location: California
Posts: 10,519
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Keep the cat inside. Keep weapons handy. Be prepared to defend your life unexpectedly. Dude sounds messed up.
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Wow, leave it to the internet to make me feel pretty good about living on the same street as a guy whose dog kills our cat instead of having some of the people on here for a neighbor. lol
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